THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I have been a Dirty fan for quite some time. A couple years ago I was at a low and wrote to you for advice. I ended up not following what you said and you told me I was a “lost cause”. I went about my life with a slightly bruised ego for quite some time, not understanding your answer or the negative response readers posted. Last year I almost died in a car accident. Three months of bed rest gave me a lot of time to think about life. I left my loser boyfriend of 3 years (the accident was his fault and he barely saw me after), my friends had forgotten me, and I was depending on my parents for every aspect fo life since I had a broken femur. This is when your response made sense. Living life anything less than to its fullest is a waste of my time. We are all blessed and need to stop focusing on the negative. As of now I bartend, go to school full time, I am single, 21, and attractive. My question is where do I go from here? I feel like I am at a turning point. I want to transfer to a different college and live in a flourishing city. I was wondering if you had any advice for me since I am no longer a lost cause!?
San Diego.- nik