THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I’ve written you before. I asked for advice because my life was in a downward spiral, but you pretty much told me it would never get better. I thought you were an ass hole and I was determined to prove you wrong. Well, I couldn’t. Since then, things have gotten worse. I gained 15 pounds, had to move in with my parents and the relationship with them is dissolving, I lost one of my jobs (I now have one part time job) and nearly 45k in student debt. I haven’t been able to replace my second job since I was laid off, and to add insult to injury, my looks have gone downhill since I turned 30. The age when you, and many others, say a woman is just about useless. I hate to say it, but you were right. I realized this when I put an add on the internet offering to be a girlfriend to anyone who could offer me a place to stay. Things do suck after 30. Bad enough that I’m pretty sure I wont stick around for 31. Please let people know that even if they have intentions of doing good in life, they will never be able to do it the wholesome way. I avoided sugar daddies, male sluts, cheaters, cheating, being an easy sl*t and all that stuff because I wanted to be in good moral standing. But that only gets people nowhere. Your message is true. Sad, but true.
This is why women get married so they don’t have to deal with problems like this. Find a security blanket so you can be happy for 4 years.- nik