THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I am 29 and currently pregnant with my 3rd child – all of whom belong to my husband. I have been with this man since I was 19 and always thought I was “good enough” – until I found TheDirty. I realize now – I am ugly as f*ck! For the past year, I have been struggling to mend my marriage but it is becoming increasingly clear that I am going to be a single mother of three soon. My husband refuses to go to marriage counselling, I’m sure he is cheating on me, he won’t touch me – and if he does, he can’t get it up, he stays out with all night snorting blow, has recently turned violent with me and he lies about EVERYTHING! I want to save my marriage and have tried therapy on my own, have planned romantic getaways, worked out, lost weight, tried give him some more space to get over this phase but my final straw was about 1 month ago when he soberly beat the sh*t out of me. He loves porn and slutty looking girls but gets edgy if I ever wear anything revealing out in public – do you think if I made my body look like a pornstar it would save my marriage or make him mad? Should I go less pornstar but enhance my girl next door look? These are the things I know: my teeth need fixing – although straight, my top front four are huge. To have them fixed would be the most expensive and require filing them down and then braces for up to two years (yikes!), my boobs are itty bitty Bs but a good shape and nice nipps and I have beef curtains! Please help me prioritize these.
You need to leave your husband before you are too old to find a new one. You sound crazy and it’s all because he has warped your sense of happiness. Your kids will end up replicating the model… you need to get out.- nik