THE DIRTY ARMY: Met this girl in a bar. I knew she didn’t belong as soon as I saw her. Turns out she is in some shit relationship where her boyfriend beats her. I planted the seed because I could see myself being with her. She remembers me and adds me on facebook a few days later. She finally breaks up with her boyfriend in a week or two so I say hi. I picked up her shattered pieces of a bad relationship. It turned out she had a kid and I\’m not normally the guy who would be down for that. We talked everyday for nine months and we had the best relationship I have ever been in personally. We had sex and she told me she loved me. It was sort of a long distance relationship and I wasn\’t sure if I should get into that because I didn\’t want to hurt her. A few months later I finally cracked. I was totally dedicated to this chick and would do anything for her. About a month ago she visited on spring break. She got really fcked up one night and told me how I should move to her and marry her. Not going to lie I dug that. I told her I would finish school and do everything I could for her. She went back and I noticed she was acting weird. I asked her if she was seeing somebody else and she told me everything was fine. For a full month she put me through torture and wouldn’t tell me what was wrong. I ended up getting with my ex and had to tell her the next day. She ripped me apart saying she never wants to see me and that I’m disgusting. I kept pursuing and she said well since you did it then you can’t get mad if I do to. I said okay. I loved her and I felt like I deserved that. I broke down one night a few days later and told her the idea was messing me up. I hated the thought. Well idk what to tell ya. She did it. I kept ripping at her wall and she did it a couple days after she left. Right when I began to noticed. I was pissed off and said some not nice things. I treated her like a queen and she lied and strung me a long for a full month. It destroyed me. I sent her little boy friend pictures she sent me that month and other things for proof she’s a scandalous chick. Question is… What would you have done? Am I a douche for doing that to her? Should I have done something else. I told her I forgave her and I shouldn’t have to. Pretty damn low if you ask me!