THE DIRTY ARMY: Meet Connor Hurn. This little spineless coward is a pathological lying, abusive sociopath that will stop at nothing to “clear” his name and put down those around him to validate his sick, twisted way of thinking. He chronically verbally abused his ex girlfriend to the point where she literally started to go insane, which of course only escalated to physical abuse. He would take her phone away, keep in her rooms and wouldn’t let her use the bathroom, to the point where she had to urinate on the floor. He would constantly tell her to **ll herself, that she was a whore and a cunt who didn’t deserve to live, that she deserved to be raped/hit/k*lled- the list is endless. It’s been two and a half years of total sh*t from this guy, and getting yet another sobbing phone call from her telling me his latest (recording her saying nasty things after he told her he was going to f*ck someone and threatening to put it on the internet…) has finally prompted me to write this. I’ve seen enough of this girl being manipulated and coerced into believing this guy is capable of changing, so now is the time for a little, immature retaliation to get on his level. Ladies, AVOID. He ruined one of my dearest friends; the girl was a bright, creative, kind and intelligent light, and after this, she’s a shell of her former self. She constantly has her guard up, gets easily defensive (both psychologically and physically, in the sense that she will easily raise her voice (something uncharacteristic prior to this relationship), “winces” when someone might raise their hand etc), and barely focuses on her craft (beautiful opera singer)/school anymore. He went down to the South where she was going to school and things went very, very sour. He had been writing an ex girlfriend spewing nothing but venom and bullshit, spreading everything personal about my friend, and when she eventually discovered it, he chased her out of her apartment calling her a slut and consequently jacked off in her wallet. Later, things got violent between the two of them, and he eventually convinced her to leave University and drive across the country. In most cases, someone would think “Why can’t she just be strong and say no? How is this his fault in the slightest?”. None of us pinned this decision on him, or made it his fault until things got worse between them and we started noticing bruises/cuts/black eyes on her, and she made excuses for it. It’s then that we (our group of friends) started doing research on abusive relationships, how they form and what to expect. [Part 2 removed]…. Luckily, we’ve got a few photos of our own to share. Sucks we have to go to this level, but hell, whatever it’ll take to make him stop and leave her alone for good.