THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I’m an avid dirty fan and I have a serious yet sad post. Sorry, no great boobs or tiny penis for this submit. I have been dating a guy for over two years, after 6 months of dating, he decided to tell me he had brain cancer. This was a month before I left for grad school in DC, so we decided to see where it went. We have worked hard to stay together but I realize recently he isn’t the man I want to marry. Also recently he started talking about marriage and how his family has pressure him to “lock me down”. Unfortunately, I’m in the medical field and the more I know the more I realize he is getting worse and I am getting deeper into not leaving. The cancer he has is progressive aka non curable he will die from it, suddenly. I find myself stuck because I care too much for him/his family and I want his last years to be “normal” and “happy” as I feel everyone deserves. I’m worried that I’m only here to keep a dying man company. Am I wrong for staying?
You need to bounce before the pain in your heart cock blocks you from loving a real husband. The situation sucks, but you have to be realistic with your intentions. Once his life ends, its only your life that will need saving.- nik