THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, my boyfriend gets angry with me when I try to to initiate sex. He says he loves me, but he doesn’t have a sex drive. I see him oogle other girls out when we’re in public so I know that he does have a sex drive. I recently told him that we’re either breaking up or we need to have an open relationship because I have to have sex. He said we can have an open relationship. I told him today that I made a date with another guy and he got furious. He’s not having sex with other people, so what’s going on?

He just cannot be alone. He doesn’t love you… he needs the idea of being in a relationship to keep him mentally status quo.- nik