THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, my situation is this, I’ve been going through hell these last couple of weeks, I’m going on 10 years married. We have been on and off because he has left me twice, first for a barwhore who was in her 40’s then we “solved” our issues. This was in 2012, in 2015 he left to work out of state and the same thing happened, he left me for a nasty ass stripper.
Well as a wife who still believed could make our marriage work, I took him back, I know, stupid me. Well our issue now is that I’ve caught him texting this chick who’s not even from the same town, comfronted him about it and he stopped, then I found out he was still messaging with her. He says he is not cheating, but in the messages it says how bad he wants her. So isn’t that still cheating??