Ask Nik Richie — Should I stay Or Should I Go
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, plz keep me Anonymous! I been married for 21 years have 2 great boys! 15-18. Well, I just don’t trust him as we were dating and he would cheat on me and never took me around his friends. He still doesn’t share are talk about me… he loves me one minute and the next it’s like he careless! He hides his phone!! I’m not allowed to be on his checking account! He says I will mess it all up! When things go wrong it’s my fault! I think I can no longer live like this, I want to be happy again! But feel bad for my boys!! What do you guys think I should do?
You need to find a new husband who wants to be on your team. Do you want your boys to treat their future wife like your husband treats you… because that’s what’s going to happen if you stay in this. You’ve already lost the game of life… at least let your children be better than their father.- nik