Beware of Nigel McPhee of Calgary

Beware of Nigel McPhee of Calgary

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, this guy Nigel McPhee‘s not as bad as some of the people on your page, but he’s still a cheating jerk so he should get called out. I dated him last year and he was evasive and shady, broke up with me by text. A couple of months later he begs me to take him back. Stupidly, I did, but the shady behavior started again right away, so I broke up with him. A couple more months later he calls again. I look at his Facebook page and there’s another woman all over it. I ask him about her and he blocks me and stops texting. After talking to her, I found out they’d been dating before we had hooked up the second time. (she’d been on vacation when he called me up). Since I see his face on dating websites again, I figure I should let the nice ladies of Calgary know to beware.

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  1. So glad this pig gets what he deservesJune 13, 2019 at 6:42 PM

    Haha…joke is on you…this piece of #&@* is back on POF looking for his next….this has been a public service announcement.

    • He is a pile of #+}^!June 19, 2019 at 2:55 PM

      His current POF profile says he is single and actively seeking a relationship. This guy wouldn’t know how to have a relationship if it hit him in the head!

      To the question, do you want kids, he answers, undecided/open…ummm dude you already have 3….at least.

      To the question of how ambitious are you, he answers ambitious. Really??? Ambitious to set a world record on how many woman you can screw over in your lifetime??

      To the question around personality, he answers homebody! SERIOUSLY?? Homebody as in I will have my body in as many homes of as many woman as possible?

      This guy is a complete and utter JOKE. He uses excuse after excuse as to why he behaves the way he does, but in the end you are almost 40 years old and by now if you aren’t responsible you never will be. Just wait until he makes you feel guilty for questioning his shady behaviour.

      Narcissistic AF, stay clear ladies. There is life after Nigel, and it really does get better, if not the best ever. After dealing with this schmuck, the next guy you meet will be a superstar!

      • Yasssss QueenJune 28, 2019 at 2:01 PM

        Nailed it!

  2. Good morning beautifulMay 2, 2019 at 9:56 PM

    Seems like all you ladies can’t deal with your drama and have to put this on the dirty. Really mature.
    The man I know as this guy is sweet, loving, caring, texts me every morning good morning and treats me good. So stop talking s$&@ about him. This site is ridiculous.
    He has driven to see me hours away and pays for stuff. Motels food etc. So I’d appreciate if you would all leave him alone and stop saying stuff about him. Also he has never laid a hand on me.
    Takes me to waterfalls and on trips.

    And I must be the ex he always goes back to so haha on all y’all

    Xoxo love you babe your my everything

    • KarmabeabitchJune 13, 2019 at 6:36 PM

      Oh how I wish I could post the pic of this goof back on the prowl on POF…gross…good luck girlfriend

    • You Should be SO proudMay 12, 2019 at 3:06 PM

      My guess is he’s always slept around while he has been with you as well. If you think you’re lucky because you’re the one he goes back to, that’s your deal. A guy that has no career aspirations, has multiple kids with multiple woman, keeps what he has in his car because he doesn’t have a place to live outside of the different women’s beds he keeps warm, lies and cheats and is nearly 40 doesn’t sound like much of a prize…but you do you!

  3. HahaMarch 1, 2019 at 9:17 AM

    Who keeps writing these things the same person. There is no way this guy is that bad also. From what I’ve heard it’s like 10 kids now and he beats everyone up. Oh don’t forget he’ll steal all your money. Treat you well and take care of you. He is a well mannered man and yes I’m sure has problems like everyone else. No one is perfect. Besides if I walked in on my ex and another person I’d be messed up also. Don’t judge by these posts.

  4. Glad I kicked him out!February 26, 2019 at 6:26 PM

    That’s crazy baby mama! That’s his 3rd kid now, sorry he isn’t there for him. I’m absolutely to be done with this Jack a55 out of my home and my life! Girls, look and read all the comments, if only 2or 3 day he’s a good guy out of 20…. Go with the majority. He’s so dirty, so creepy, can’t hold a job, changes his name, his vehicle, can’t hold down a home…. Not worth your time and money…. Oh yes, he’ll cost you lots

  5. The Baby MamaNovember 8, 2018 at 9:58 PM

    Well, dated him when I was living in Airdire and same story. Only difference is I now have an amazing little boy that Nigel has never acknowledged, nor does he ever plan on doing so. Which is fine with me! Had my baby in Dec 2015 – Nigel and I dated for a little while.
    My old roommate from when I lived in Airdrie messaged me not too long ago telling me about how he was talking to her on POF. She mentioned me and kiddo and he blocked her!

    • I'm a foolJuly 17, 2019 at 7:12 PM

      If only this site was around when I first met Nigel! Same thing as all you ladies…..I would get the “Good morning beautiful” texts. We’d make plans to do something and he’d frequently cancel on me and use some stupid excuse why (usually it was for medical reasons). I also got pregnant with his child and when I was 3 months along, he stopped talking to me. I haven’t had any contact with him since. My child is 21 months now and he knows nothing about him/her. He’s a dead beat and a low life! I’m not sad to see him go but I am a bit sad that my child has all these siblings that he/she will never meet! Anyways, keep away ladies! And Baby Mama, I wish there was a way to contact you, because I think it would be nice to talk to someone in the same boat!

  6. MeOctober 18, 2018 at 12:21 AM

    I’ve been off and on with him for bout 4yrs. Sticks round for a couples months and even throw around the love word. The last time was this past summer. He texted me and told he was getting back with an ex. I’ve stopped trying to date him, now I just have sex with him. I can believe he’s the type of guy that acts like this.

  7. NoteventrueorcloseOctober 11, 2018 at 8:48 AM

    Well lets see here most if this is lies first of also no one is perfect. We used protection and got tested together came back – with nothing he is trust worthy and bf material. One the best men I know with so many other men worse than this guy out there.

  8. RightsaidfredOctober 9, 2018 at 1:54 PM

    Uses different names. Resides between Edmonton and Calgary. He is a nasty human who can’t tell the truth to save his life. If I can spare one person the shut he brings to the table then I will.

  9. PAugust 11, 2018 at 5:37 AM

    He never used protection and if we’re all bitches then why were you with us and begging to come back huh?!? You blame the girls but you’re just pissed you f*d up and can’t find a date to screw now.

  10. MJanuary 3, 2018 at 7:20 PM

    Leave the past in the past. Don’t hate the playa hate the game. Also Nigel uses protection and is cleaner than half you b#*ches. Grow up and stop complaining. Show me the test that says he is not clean. Oh what you can’t hahahaha. Dumb a$$ B……

  11. SinclairJanuary 3, 2018 at 7:53 AM

    Oh yes ladies this guy is not to be trusted . He tries to do the same with me but lucky I knew he was bad news before it was too late. But it is true every word. Uses women and does not care to wear protection which is why I was like no way. No supposedly lives in Edmonton as he tried to message me last week trying to be all sweet. Creep and I’m sure not clean.

  12. HDecember 31, 2017 at 8:52 PM

    Yeah this is all to familiar. He stood me up for a first date then a year or two later decided to keep messaging me over and over apologizing asked for a second chance. So went out a few times and same thing , good morning beautiful texts everyday, sent flowers to work but then said he felt neglected and I got some weird text from a “Co-worker” of his. My intuition told me something was not right and I ended it before anything happened, thank god! We have womens intuition for a reason ladies!

  13. BadonkadonkDecember 28, 2017 at 11:08 PM

    I really dont think you have the right guy. Nigel and i were together over two years he treated me good. Always came to see me. Always met with me when he said he would. Took me out for supper and lunch. And paid. We went on walks to places with waterfalls. I really don’t know ow how you ladies or whoever you are an put this on here. Your so shallow. Seems like the same people or person posting. And plus how would u like to be put on here.

  14. Mamaof2December 28, 2017 at 9:48 PM

    I have actually met him within the last two weeks . Showed me his new car ; we made plans ; I thought things were good and like you said he messaged me over Text said he talked to his ex girlfriend and she wanted to get back together and that was it

  15. “Good morning beautiful “December 28, 2017 at 10:34 AM

    He’s a player .
    Wanted to meet up last week .
    Same story as everyone on here
    Poof !!! He’s gone
    We dated over a year ago
    I’m sure he was with other women at the same time .

  16. NigelDecember 28, 2017 at 10:29 AM

    Well I dated him as well .. same story as everyone else . We were suppose to meet up a couple weeks ago then again last week . I dated him over a year ago and poof! Disappeared !
    Red flags big time .

    I also got a text every morning “good morning beautiful “

  17. Nigel McpheeDecember 28, 2017 at 10:20 AM

    Well I dated him as well .. same story as everyone else . We were suppose to meet up a couple weeks ago then again last week . I dated him over a year ago and poof! Disappeared !
    Red flags big time .
    Shady

  18. KDecember 19, 2017 at 10:04 AM

    I dated Nigel for a few years, I don’t think half this is true as he texted me back right away and we spent pretty much everyday together. He treated me like gold he paid most the time, and never used me opened doors for me bought me great gifts. He texted me good morning and good night beautiful every day and evening. Also we used protection until i got on birth control were we both decided not to as we went to the Dr and we both ended up being clean.

    • Mamaof2December 28, 2017 at 9:50 PM

      Just last week he was in my room and in my bed ; he texted me every morning and every night as well. Right until last Monday

  19. Honda loverDecember 16, 2017 at 8:31 PM

    This guy is a dick. Lies, plays games, makes you think he’s into you but ladies beware, he won’t commit. He got no game, uses no protection when sleeping with people, he’s shady as hell and if you question it, he gets mad and makes it seem like you’re in the wrong for asking. He breaks up over text, comes crawling back weeks later, says he feels bad…. Trust me he doesn’t. He won’t answer for hours if at all when you text him, uses you for everything you’ve got. He’s been seeing someone from August to mid September and from October till now, nothing but red flags with this one.

  20. Little man of steelDecember 15, 2017 at 5:37 PM

    Anyone can make any of this up wow where is the proof plus people can be single and sleep with any one they want doesn’t mean they are dating steady plus if some of these girls would keep there legs closed this kind of stuff wouldn’t happen

  21. SDecember 15, 2017 at 10:19 AM

    OMG!!! I’m currently dating this guy right now as we speak!!! Is this all true? Do I need to be worried???

  22. CNovember 3, 2017 at 11:43 AM

    I know who he is too.. we hooked up and then he disappears.. I seen him again a few months ago and he said he wanted to be nice and see how I was.. then told me he didn’t want to date someone that jumped into bed so easy.. I laughed and told him I wasn’t ever interested just wanted to have some fun and he’s not boyfriend material

    • SDecember 15, 2017 at 11:10 AM

      OMG! I’m dating this guy right now!? Is this all true???

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