Dwayne Haye of Calgary

Dwayne Haye of Calgary

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, Dwayne Haye buttered up my wife along with 5 other women at the same time. His career will soon be over when I’m done with him. Brainwashes everyone in his path, same lines used and sucks the money right out of his victims. I’m glad I caught it when I did. A 110% P.O.S. Kids are affected in all relationships as he loves the hockey moms. He even sends the same stupid pictures of himself to all the same women.


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  1. Who’s Using Who?September 16, 2018 at 8:37 PM

    Is it wrong for me to say that I actually feel bad for Dwayne in this situation? He’s being used by Debbie Calladine to promote her image and sell Valentus products. Not that he doesn’t deserve to be used. He’s done plenty of that over his lifetime. I think she’s worse than he is though, in terms of being fake and taking advantage of others. Pretty clear why he’s “all in” with this one…she’s just like him, only two steps ahead.

  2. FraudSeptember 5, 2018 at 10:26 PM

    Dwayne Hay is a total fraud and Debbie Calladine is a self absorbed idiot. That’s all there is to it. They think they’ve got the world by the tail when all they’re really doing is chasing their own tails round and round. It’s funny to watch, except for the hurt her kids have suffered. Two known cheaters and liars (and one theif – at least that I know of) who live in different cities, have known each other less than 4 months and splash their filtered pics all over social media = total crap. Dwayne will crack up sooner or later because he always does. Just a matter of time. All flash with these two, like some sad watered down D-grade celebrity couple that’s constantly trying to get attention to win points and make money. Anybody who hires Dwayne is a fool. He robs people blind, has no ethics and no shame. In his own words…GROSS

  3. Too smart to fool meSeptember 1, 2018 at 11:31 AM

    I’ve read through most of these comments and they are all bang on. I watched DH manipulate and deceive my friend, while at the same time telling me I was “the one” and he was falling in love. Ummm WTF? Luckily my guy and my brain kept me far away from him.

    He has always loved the married women and you get bonus points if you have any type of assists or money in the bank. I first felt sorry for his new victim, but if she has seen all of this and hasn’t run….she will get what she deserves. So sad for her kids.

  4. Shoulda known betterAugust 25, 2018 at 8:02 AM

    Annnndddd…. Cha-Ching…
    The boy is CA$HING in Lolol

  5. Not worth your timeAugust 17, 2018 at 2:40 PM

    Don’t get too worked up over these two. Total joke and a disaster waiting to happen. Not worth the effort to bother with it.

  6. Worst peopleAugust 8, 2018 at 7:38 PM

    Isn’t it funny (and obvious) that every time Debbie gets a chance now to post pics of herself and “her girl” Alexa with #loveher hashtags all whatever other crap she attaches, she takes the opportunity full force? All filtered and fake, just like always – Debbie Calladine’s signature move. Hey, Deb – newsflash. Your daughter is 11. All she wants is her mom to be around and devoted to her (rather than off with some douche who broke up her family.) Where’s all the lovey dovey pics of you and your son? Oh that’s right – he won’t have anything to do with you now, or your boyfriend – ever. Good choices, mom! Really putting your kids front and center in the sh*tstorm you created in their lives. Debbie Calladine: worst/most fake mom/person/wife I’ve run into. Dwayne Hay: just a user and abuser. Both of them desperate, f’d up and totally about themselves. If it weren’t such a big disaster for her kids, I’d laugh my head off over it all.

  7. TellingAugust 3, 2018 at 7:15 PM

    Any 40-something woman who uses Snapchat filters that make her look like a Disney character, and the Facebook “sparkle” filter when she’s videoing an explainatuon about her separation is a deeply insecure person with the mentality of a 10 year old child. Dwayne loves it for now, because she’s all about him and too stupid to know better. She’ll continue to be stupid and childish, and he’ll continue to be a lying scumbag, and they’ll wake up at some point and realize neither of them is what the other one thought they were. Hard to believe that any two people could be so deluded.

    • Wake up everyoneAugust 4, 2018 at 7:22 AM

      Let’s call a spade a spade here. Nobody in this situation is innocent including Kevin. When you watch your wife screw other men for your own sick pleasure is twisted. Debbie the fact that you say you did this was to be a good wife is a joke. It was your ticket to be the sloot you are. This woman couldn’t be any more fake. These 3 get what they deserve unfortunately the kids will be affected. What does your son think? Your daughter? Debbie everyone knows you were sleeping with this nightmare dwayne while married. You are not fooling anyone but yourself. Your are a joke around town. Shame on you. How old are you? And the snapchat filters…wow. you are NOTHING that you say you are. Just like dwayne. Can’t wait to watch this one blow up. Dumb dumb debbie.

      • StunnerAugust 6, 2018 at 10:36 AM


  8. TruthAugust 1, 2018 at 9:55 AM

    Do these two (DH and DC) feel people will actually follow their fitness regime? What credentials do they have? Do they think they are internet super stars who people want to follow? They are both delusional. She can barely speak in her vids with all the Botox, hard to watch someone talke when their lips don’t move, she’d make a good ventriloquist. Combined these 2 have an IQ of a rock.

  9. Another ExJuly 31, 2018 at 6:24 PM

    I talked to Debbie too. Gave her straight up answers to everything she asked me. The woman simply doesn’t want to hear or believe the truth. Right now, all she wants to do is walk around in la-la land (i.e. Dwayne’s made up fantasy life) and put it all on display in a completely transparent and pathetic effort to boost her own ego and elevate her image – just like Dwayne loves to do. She’s obviously a very screwed up and not so bright person – which is actually perfect for Dwayne, because he’ll be able to lead her down the garden path a long, long way. She WANTS to buy what he’s selling her. That’s all there is to it. At some point though she’ll realize she’s with a pure narcissist who’s basically flat broke, has a really short fuse and also an explosive temper. My prediction is it’ll implode about a year from now over money. Neither one of them makes any money to speak of and yet both of them love it a whole lot. Dwayne doesn’t have a hope in hell of ever being a provider, and Valentus will never give her financial stability (what a joke that whole thing is.) My advice to her ex? Draw a firm line on finances. Keep the house, raise your daughter and send Debbie packing. She’ll figure out fast what Dwayne’s really about. He’s is an expert when it comes to finding ways to live off someone else, and Debbie Calladine is a perfect target for it – all wishful thinking and no brains. Dwayne will have Debbie paying for whatever he can (Kevin paying for it, that is.) Make them live off their own incomes and watch what happens. They’ll fall apart fast because it won’t be possible to fake their way through anymore – no more la-la land to walk around in. When life gets real, and it always does, their fangs will start to show. Protect your daughter from what’s coming, Kevin. Debbie obviously won’t.

  10. ExJuly 31, 2018 at 1:11 PM

    Dwayne is a scary man. That’s why I have never told my story. He’s not who he says he is. This is Debbie’s journey. Not ours.

    • Another oneAugust 1, 2018 at 1:39 PM

      I’m also a victim. Dwayne is a monster. It’s that simple. Every new girl thinks she is the one….and in Dwaynes words “life changing” yes Debbie he has told other women that line too. Wake up before it’s too late. Just a matter of time. This guy needs to be stopped. Dangerous dangerous man. Stupid stupid woman.

    • Recent Ex...July 31, 2018 at 5:01 PM

      I think there are a lot of us who feel the same. Dwayne is not the man you think he is when you start out. I felt ashamed and embarrassed for the way things happened after the fact. But, he seems to be a pro at this and wee practised. This is Debbie’s journey, it’s just unfortunate that she will have to feel the way we do and not take note of the warnings. I wish someone had of warned me.

  11. ExJuly 31, 2018 at 7:23 AM

    I was a victim of this guy back in 2002ish. I reached out to Debbie to tell her my story and she said she had been warned by others also and disregarded everything that was said. From that point on I felt she was on her own. I told her on behalf of her future self run. Any woman in the future who engages in a relationship with “D” deserves what she gets ….. These Dirty pages are 100% true and accurate. ANY human male or female who chooses to believe his words whether business or personal and not this site is delusional. If his lips are moving I promise he is lying.

    • 100%July 31, 2018 at 6:45 PM

      OMG – Where’s the “like” button??? Same here (although he found me several years later.) I know it’s all true, just like you do. Man – I wish we could start a private Facebook group for anyone who got hurt or played by Dwayne Hay. There would be a lot of members and we’d all have a lot in common.

  12. CuriousJuly 30, 2018 at 2:09 PM

    Just wondering why there have not been any comments from his old gf’s. I would think they would have something to say. No?

  13. Sick and sadJuly 29, 2018 at 4:43 PM

    Debbie’s family have all tried to talk to her about this. She’s not listening to anyone. Literally nobody close to her is supporting her. She’s going to be one sad woman when she finally figures out Dwayne isn’t what he claims to be. She thinks she’s landed this great guy who makes a ton of money because that’s what Dwayne wants her to think. His charade is really thin. Can’t believe she fell for it. Her poor kids. Just the worst.

    • Shocked...not reallyJuly 30, 2018 at 2:43 PM

      Why is anyone surprised DC fell for him. Never was all that bright…pretty but zero substance here. How embarrassing for her when it falls apart…and it will. This gal was a dirty little wife in her marriage anyway…Its not the first time she has strayed from her husband…right Kevin…
      She really should have her own page on here. Both belong together as far as we can all tell. Dumb dumb Debbie…we all knew it before…now its confirmed. What a blind bitch.

  14. LuciielioJuly 25, 2018 at 7:10 PM

    Apparently dwayne’s dad died a couple years ago as he was fishing for some funeral costs from me… ha! Apparently cancer…

    • Starting to wonderJuly 26, 2018 at 7:26 AM

      Dwayne has been saying his dad has cancer for several years and also that his dad refuses treatment. Dwayne’s dad is still very much alive. I can’t believe anyone would lie about someone having cancer, but I’m starting to wonder. I don’t know if it’s true and dwayne uses it as a way to get money out of people, or whether it’s a lie he’s spun for the same reason. What’s really stupid is, if Dwayne makes the kind of money he says he does why would he need to get money from anybody else for anything??? Dude is F’d.

  15. LucielouJuly 25, 2018 at 6:30 PM

    He asked me for money to help pay for his dad’s funeral expenses a couple years ago! I think his Dad is still alive!!!??

  16. YepJuly 24, 2018 at 5:11 PM

    Whatever sense of (non)reality these two have is laughable. Trolling the dating sites is the ultimate vacation bonus for this boy. It’s a pattern. Really, what woman would pass up an opportunity to (likely fund) an amazing vacation with an athletic and highly educated professional like this specimen ? Married/separated? No problem – certainly the kidz can work thru the trauma with a therapist. High scores to both for their selfie skills, documenting a highly (filtered) romantic trip, amazing bodies (plastic included), and low intellect. They believe it – why shouldn’t we? Barf. I think I’ve just vomited in my mouth.

  17. Dumb and dumberJuly 23, 2018 at 7:23 AM

    I’m actually loving this (other than the fact that a young girl is being hurt – that is terrible.) It looks like Dwayne has finally met his match – and not in a good way. He’s a AAA hockey coach and she’s a mom, and clearly neither one of them gives a f*ck about kids at all – not even hers. How stupid and hypocritical can you be? Any mother who can do what Debbie Calladine is doing to her daughter is a real piece of work. Good luck with that one, Dwayne! She’ll give you headaches like you’ve never had.
    They deserve each other. They’re both terrible people who are totally self absorbed and all about #1 – themself. It’s kind of perfect actually.

  18. How Low Can You GoJuly 19, 2018 at 5:39 PM

    Well.. clearly Mr. Scumbags latest fling is proving ..”publicly” how pathetic they both really are. It is evident that she is not placing the best interest of her child before him. I believe, that in the courts eyes, that would be a definitive case of an ‘unfit’ Mother! Clearly the absence of morals, and parental guidance to be raising a child. If her ex has any Fatherly concern, he should allow and not settle, for anything but supervised visits. I wouldn’t want my child anywhere near a skank like Dwayne Hay.
    Debbie and Dwayne.. cut from the same cloth. How pseudo.. all the “likes and loves”… from people you have never met.. oh..right.. the VALENTUS CULT.. how empty and desperate you two must be.

    • Selfish and ShallowJuly 19, 2018 at 8:03 PM

      Dwayne is well known for being a scumbag – lies, cheats, steals, so it’s no surprise he didn’t think twice about breaking up another family and helping to inflict emotional damage on an 11-year old girl. What’s shocking is that her mother is doing it now too. Goes to show how poisonous Dwayne is, and how desperate and mindless Debbie Calladine is. For any mother to willfully inflict this kind of pain on her own daughter makes her not only selfish and shallow, but also fully inept as a parent. You wanted out of your marriage, Debbie? Fine. Lots of people get divorced. But the fact that you couldn’t and wouldn’t leave Kevin without first getting involved with this train wreck says everything about you as a person and a mother. Especially because you knew full well what Dwayne is all about when you did it. Cheating, lying, and then posting your “relationship” all over social media where your daughter can and will surely see it is the lowest form of awful. This is all new to Alexa – she is reeling from her family breaking up just a few weeks ago, and you’re off vacationing with the guy you screwed around on her dad with – and bragging about it. How sick are you??? You’re hurting your daughter. Try to get that through your head.

      Debbie Calladine needs her own page on The Dirty. She’s as bad or worse as Dwayne. When this farce of a relationship craters (and it will) she’ll be on the hunt for someone who can actually support her, and those guys should know what she’s about.

  19. Hurting her familyJuly 19, 2018 at 5:38 AM

    I can’t believe she is so rude and heartless towards her daughter.. her daughters comments on her Instagram post broke me.. to get up and walk away from something to be with a guy who is full of broken promises. I hope when she gets hurt her ex husband doesn’t step back into her life.. hurting for her children’s sake

    • Horrible peopleJuly 19, 2018 at 11:26 AM

      She’s every bit as bad as he is – maybe worse. Dwayne is well known for lying, cheating, stealing etc., and he definitely doesn’t care who he hurts getting what he wants – so it’s no surprise he didn’t think twice about how his actions with Debbie would hurt her kids – particularly her sweet 11 year old daughter. But Debbie is her mom for crying out loud!!! You want out of your marriage? Fine – you’re not the first and you won’t be the last person to leave one. But to do it the way she’s done it? Cheating with Dwayne and then diving into a relationship with him when she knows full well about all the terrible things he does to people – and then blasting their escapades out all over social media???? Debbie obviously knows her daughter will be watching everything. What kind of a selfish, heartless, mindless person does that to her own child??? I can hardly believe it.

      Debbie Calladine needs her own Dirty page, I’d say. Especially when her bogus relationship with Dwayne hits the skids – she’ll be on the hunt for a guy who can actually support her. Maybe she’ll cheat on Dwayne and dump his ass the way she did her husband…that would be poetic justice for a guy who has no problem cheating, breaking up families and hurting kids. The two of them make me sick…

      Debbie Calladine, you senseless b1tch, you’re hurting you’re daughter very badly. The damage you’re causing is brutal and permanent. Get right, for Christ’s sake!

      Stay strong sweet Alexa. You’ll get through this…

  20. So funnyJuly 18, 2018 at 2:11 PM

    Check out her Instagram! Dwayne takes a different woman to the same places in Pensacola every year! It’s like somebody photoshops a new woman into the same pics every summer!!!! Dying laughing…..

  21. Seriously?July 15, 2018 at 10:17 AM

    How freakin’ desperate does a woman have to be to hook up with this guy? Seriously, with all that’s online about him and all the crap he’s pulled, why would anyone want to be associated with him – never mind introduce him to your kids? He’s all charm and no substance. Why would you want to be in a relationship with a criminal who has a bad temper, no money and who’s bound to cheat on you??? I don’t get it.

    • The Low DownJuly 18, 2018 at 1:48 PM

      Debbie walks around with her head in the clouds. All she cares about is how she looks, so this “relationship” is laughable. She’s posting pics of her and Dwayne in “paradise” while her kids are back at home confused and hurting. She deserves this dufus.

  22. Shame on you bothJuly 14, 2018 at 3:30 PM

    False words, false promises, false ideals, false sense of self, false people. Never seen worse.

  23. CANT. STOP. LAUGHING.July 12, 2018 at 3:30 PM

    A background in kinesiology!!!!!!!????? Played for YEARS in the NHL!!!!??? Bahahahahahahaha!!!!!! Her FB is hysterical!

  24. FakeJuly 10, 2018 at 7:32 PM

    Fake tans, filters, lies, cheats on husband, fake boobs, what is real about Debbie Calladine?

    The last couple post made me vomit in my mouth.

    This Dwayne loser, pathetic. He was voted most undateable in YYC.. I fact checked him with a couple buddies. He is a joke, buff body, no brains and a con artist.

    Team D is right – team dumb dumbs

  25. UnrealJuly 8, 2018 at 9:27 AM

    I’m embarrassed for her. She’s a fool for not taking heed of all these posts.

    • Reality BitesJuly 11, 2018 at 12:51 PM

      Why embarrassed for her?.. Her lack of morals are proof.. she is as shallow.. correction.. MORE shallow than him.. for obvious reasons. Everyone knows what a sloot he is… yet how many desperate women.. with high egos.. and their surreal fairy tail fantasies.. go all in with their “rose-colored” glasses.. thinking they’ve “scored”. Seriously.. take a good hard look at this pr#@k.. he has f-all going for him.. It must be women off their meds that “fall” for him… he is nothing more than a “has been”.. and he really hasn’t even earned that …period!! There is only one type of woman this guy could attract.. its a no brainer.

    • So crazyJuly 9, 2018 at 8:47 PM

      Watching the posts she’s put up on her social since she and Dwayne met over Facebook – about 8 weeks ago, I’m not sure which of them is worse. Debbie is trying to project that her relationship with Dwayne started after her separation, which is a total lie. Dwayne seduced her over Messenger while she and Kevin were still a couple, and she bought into the game hook, line and sinker.

      Nobody should feel sorry for Debbie – she made her decisions fully informed. She’s as desperate as screwed up as Dwayne is. I actually think she’s using him as much as he’s using her – trying to appear to be something other than what she is and gain from it – trying to sell her “perfect life” so she can sell hopefully sell more Valentus beverages. It’s salesmanship at it’s most grim. Dwayne’s been doing the same thing as the ultimate hockey coach and great guy.

      What’s funny is that they both committed so soon and so publicly that they’re kind of forced to carry on the charade – at least for a while. Who knows how long it will go on? Neither of them is going to admit it was a big mistake, so it’s anyone’s guess. Pretty pictures and no substance. Nothing more fake than that.

      I know for a fact that Debbie reached out to Dwayne’s last GF and she told Debbie balls-out truth about him. Debbie went ahead anyway, sacrificing her reputation and her kids’s wellbeing too. She deserves to get what’s coming to her.

      Weirdly, this actually might be the first time Dwayne gets a taste of his own medicine – courtesy of someone who’s as sick and desperate as he is. They deserve each other. The fallout will be an earthquake…

      Props to Kevin who’s protecting and uplifting Alexa while her mother is off on one vacation to another with Douchebag Dwayne. You’re doing right by your daughter, KC. Keep doing the hard work and heavy lifting. Alexa will appreciate it. I’m sure Austin already does.

  26. So obviousJuly 7, 2018 at 10:07 AM

    I personally know 3 people he stiffed for money – one person for $800, another for $3,500 and a third person for more than $4,000. I can’t even imagine how many more must be out there. He guarantees training, demands to be prepaid and then doesn’t do the job. Never pays anyone back – always says they didn’t hold up their end of the deal. Hey Dwayne – when someone hires you to do something, they’re your customer. You cater to them, not the other way around, and if you can’t or won’t, they get refunded. If you don’t do that, you’re just a scammer and a thief.

    Words can’t describe how awful this guy is. Such a great showman. Happy go lucky until he gets caught doing something terrible or he’s not getting what he wants and then he’s a raging jerk who’ll rip your head off. He’s a sick scumbag.

    • Steals moneyJuly 7, 2018 at 4:58 PM

      Dwayne stole money from my friend as well. He claimed he needed it for his brothers custody battle and his father health bills. He blackmails and does some sketchy stuff to raise his funds.

      Here are the lies she was told:
      Owns a townhouse in Airdrie – anyone know if that is legit?
      Claims he makes $250/hr for spartan, if that’s the truth then parents are getting ripped off
      Says he pays his dad bills
      Claims he has savings for a motor home yet his car is falling apart
      Claims the flames are buying him new teeth – his are awful
      Cheats on every girl he dates, Debbie you picked a real winner. You need to protect your daughter from this dirt bag.

      As a hockey parent, I will never hire this man, he has ruined many people. Stole money from many hockey parents and never delivered sessions.

      • More liesJuly 18, 2018 at 2:22 PM

        If Dwayne asks you for money to pay for his brother’s “custody battle” or dad’s medical fees, before you hand it over, you should know that Dwayne’s brother has been unemployed for years and has a history of medical, legal, and mental problems. He’d never get custody of his kids even if he tried. In other words, there is no custody battle. Secondly, his dad supposedly has cancer. I don’t know who’d lie about something like that, but I wouldn’t put it past Dwayne. Dwayne has said over and over that his dad refuses to take any treatments, so if that’s true, why would dwayne have to cover his medical bills?? He flat out makes stuff up to look like a hero and get money from people who fall for his lies. Wise up!

      • Some anwersJuly 15, 2018 at 11:48 AM

        There’s a post below that asks questions about the things Dwayne tells people. Here’s a few answers.

        Airdrie place – he was living in a townhome there a few years ago, but he could never have bought it. He has zero credit and didn’t have the money for a down payment. There isn’t a bank in the country that would have approved him for a mortgage without a co-signer, and even then it’s doubtful. So he was either renting it or living there by someone else’s good grace. He said he rented it out to move into Calgary which is possible, but it would have been a sublease to fulfill his own lease agreement.

        Hourly rate – anybody that believes Dwayne’s claim that he makes $250/hr with Spartan is pretty gullible, and doesn’t do math very well. If he did charge that much he’d be making at minimum $1000/day. Think about that and then look at the guy’s situation. He rents an average condo, has a roommate and drives a beat up used Rover that had the bumper torn off for months. What 41 year old single guy making a minimum of $1,000/day lives like that? If he was making that kind of money, why would he be renting at all? Why would he have to “save” for an RV? Why would he have to borrow money from anybody to pay for his brother’s custody battle or his dad’s expenses (not that he does either of those things – both are also lies.) It doesn’t take a genius to figure out the money thing doesn’t add up.

        Flames paying for his new teeth – this might be the most ridiculous claim Dwayne makes. He played less than a season with the Flames over 17 years ago before he got thrown off the team and never played NHL hockey again. Now the Flames are going to pony up the money for his dental work? Come on…

        Lies, lies, lies.

  27. Shady and DishonestJuly 6, 2018 at 7:38 AM

    He’s off again on another 2-week beach holiday, and just returned from London a little while ago. Let’s add this up: Dwayne is self employed, bills hourly, hasn’t worked in weeks, has no vacation pay or benefits of any kind – hell he doesn’t even have a credit card! How’s he paying for all this? In cash – that’s the only way. Where’s he getting it? I can pretty much GUARANTEE it’s money he took from the Broncos charity initiative he was involved in. There is no other way he could do what he’s doing, other than stealing money from somewhere or someone and that’s a fact. He is a slimy, underhanded liar and totally shady. Anyone who has anything to do with him at this point is crazy. His new gf must be as stupid as he is disgusting.

  28. So funnyJuly 4, 2018 at 1:07 PM

    Dwayne says he’s all about integrity. There isn’t anybody out there that has less of it, except maybe his new woman. Check out her social media pages – not hard to find. She’s out there all the time talking about the importance of creating a personal brand and achieving the ultimate life – so like Dwayne it’s kind of comical. Meanwhile she ditches her family to take up with the #1 poser in Calgary. Nice brand, DC! Really admirable….NOT. Between the two of them, I’ve never seen anything I respect less. Two self absorbed people who don’t care about anything other than themselves. Good luck selling your personal brands now, Dwayne and DC. Both “brands” suck hard.

  29. KarmaJune 28, 2018 at 6:35 AM

    Sooner or later all the terrible things Dwayne has done will catch up with him, including this last stunt he pulled, helping to split up yet another family. People talk and people do their research. His reputation is brutal and everyone who comes in contact with him knows it. Can’t run from it forever and you can’t fake people out forever either. He is who he is, and the truth of him will always come out. If he wasn’t such sick and arrogant a**hole I’d almost feel sorry for him. His new gf seems blind, but she isn’t. She’s well aware of all the stuff Dwayne has done. She is just choosing not to give it any weight right now because she’s too busy running from her marriage and trying to appear perfectly happy. That’ll change. I see right through her and Dwayne both. Dwayne needs someone that worships him because he thinks he’s the greatest thing since sliced bread. He treats women like gold when they’re giving him what he wants and he plays the part of great guy really well. It’s an act. The truth is he’s a liar, a cheat, a bully, a bigot, a thief, he lives off other people, and worst of all he’s a really angry and needy egomaniac who needs constant praise and attention. It won’t take long before all that starts to creep up again and starts to show. His “big heart” act doesn’t last because that’s not actually what he’s like. Eventually the cycle he runs every few years will start over – f’ing any woman who’ll get on her back for him, pissing them all off, his gf will dump him and he’ll be on the hunt for the next one. That’s just how it is and always will be, and at the end of the day, it’s pretty sad. Karma is having a laugh here. Jokes on him and his empty fake life.

    • So obviousJune 28, 2018 at 5:11 PM

      Thank you to whoever wrote this. You’re so right. Dwayne definitely lives in his own made up fantasy world.

      If you stand back it all becomes really obvious. He “goes all in” with 40-something divorced women EVERY time. Here’s a good looking guy in his early 40s – a total charmer with a great body and an NHL history – stuff that could wrap any 20 or 30 something woman around his finger. He could create his own life and his own family…but no. He always chooses divorced (or in this new case, married) women with kids to “commit” to.


      Because 40-something divorcees are established and have money – supplied by their ex husbands, paid in the form of alimony, division of assets and child support. When he hooks up with these women Dwayne gets the whole package for basically nothing – house, car, lots of disposable income. Easy living with no effort from him. He just walks in and acts like a superstar, as though he’s earned it all on his own. That’s the thing about Dwayne – he can’t earn the life he wants, he needs somebody else to supply It. That’s why he picks divorcees, random unhappily married women and hockey moms. $$$

      Kids of his own? No way – he’d have to pay for them. He prefers to act like super-stepdad instead. All fun and glory, no responsibility.

      If you sign up for it, enjoy being the woman who has to blow smoke up his butt all the time AND foot the bill for most of what it costs to live with him. He expects both, and when you’re not providing both to his satisfaction, he’ll tear into you hard. You want to live that way? Be my guest.

  30. Big DisasterJune 25, 2018 at 6:03 AM

    Just watching this new saga unfold and shaking my head. The funniest thing about it is that both Dwayne the Douchbag Hay and his new ridiculous gf are going to get exactly what they deserve. She walked into things with her eyes wide open and so did he. Goes to show how f’n stupid they both must be and how much they both need their tires pumped all the time. That wears off, and when it does, they’ll both realize they’re with an idiot. Both of them want a celebrity sort of lifestye (they’re both stars in their own heads after all) and both of them love to live large – but neither one of them can pay for it or ever will be able to (coaching AAA hockey part time and trying to make it big in MLM??? SERIOUSLY??? It’s so stupid it’s hysterical.) No matter what he tells you DC, the guy doesn’t money, so you better make out great in your divorce and start selling a sh*toad of coffee, cause this user won’t be able to keep you in the lifestyle you want or have even been accustomed to in your married life. He gets by because he takes money from other people. All the crap he’s told you about all the money he makes is lies, so say goodbye to the fancy manicures and spray tans and lash extensions, honey, and put your passport away too because the guy takes one trip to the same place every year (and this year that “amazing time” you had there together was most likely funded by money he collected in the name of the Humboldt Broncos.) Pull your head out of your a55 and take a good look around. Dwayne Hay is all show, lady. And right now you’re his supporting actor. As for you, Dwayne. Get a life – preferably your own, not stolen from someone else’s, get a real job, and get your head examined. You’re gonna wind up crippled from all the abuse you put your body through, old, broke and alone – which is actually what you deserve for all the hurt and harm you’ve caused countless people in your lifetime. This whole thing is the most pathetic and f’n stupid situation I’ve seen in a long, long time. Her poor sweet daughter…like, really…what kind of people do this to a kid?? Selfish and delusion – both of them.