Dwayne Haye of Calgary

Dwayne Haye of Calgary

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, Dwayne Haye buttered up my wife along with 5 other women at the same time. His career will soon be over when I’m done with him. Brainwashes everyone in his path, same lines used and sucks the money right out of his victims. I’m glad I caught it when I did. A 110% P.O.S. Kids are affected in all relationships as he loves the hockey moms. He even sends the same stupid pictures of himself to all the same women.


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  1. SickeningNovember 19, 2018 at 7:45 PM

    Takes someone with pretty big balls to try to run hockey camps in the same province as the team he supposedly raised money for after that horrible bus crash. Everybody who knows Dwayne and what he’s like will tell you he pocketed as much as he gave to the Broncos. He’s a scam artist. Never trust him.

  2. Running his own Company???November 8, 2018 at 5:48 AM

    OMG. How does someone as dishonest and twisted as Dwayne Hay run a business??? Especially one working with kids????? The only thing “undeniable” about Dwayne is that he’s a demented cheat that does whatever it takes to put himself in the black personally and professionally. If you’re in bed with him either way, get out while you can because he’ll screw you over on both cases. Undeniable Hockey Developmemt must be the shadiest business in the country.

  3. LiarNovember 4, 2018 at 12:42 PM

    Dwayne lies all the time. He twists the facts to make himself look good and tells straight up lies to make excuses when he gets caught doing something despicable. Debbie has blinders on but sooner or later the truth of who Dwayne is will come out. He’s the definition of FAKE NEWS.

  4. [email protected]November 4, 2018 at 10:52 AM

    At Lease Spell his last name Properly!! It’s Dwayne HAY – NOT – Haye!!

  5. [email protected]November 4, 2018 at 10:50 AM


  6. D and D...to a T...October 25, 2018 at 9:04 PM

    People with NPD tend to exaggerate their skills and accomplishments, as well as their level of relationship with people they consider to be important. They use their relationships with others to boost themselves, and maintain their self-views. Let’s also keep in mind that people with narcissistic characteristics thrive on admiration from others. Individuals typically spend large amounts of time thinking about achieving and maintaining power or success. They excessively distort reality to confirm their grandiose feelings about themselves and they routinely take advantage of the people around them, knowingly or unknowingly. Their exaggerated self-views thrive on easy-to-obtain social media endorsements such as likes, shares, or new followers. Furthermore, narcissists seek and prefer superficial connections with other people. Those who score high in narcissism have been found to overrate their own abilities, and lash out angrily in response to truthful criticism.

  7. 100% stupidOctober 21, 2018 at 5:14 PM

    Following Dwayne Hay and Debbie Calladine on social media is like watching a circus put on by two 12 year old performers. She is obviously mentally and emotionally immature, if not completely disturbed, based on literally EVERYTHING she posts. Especially considering her 20 year marriage just ended (after she started cheating with Dwayne, that is.) She’s not even divorced for crying out loud. Maybe have a little respect for the family you created, Debbie? Just a thought. It all makes me laugh. Dwayne might actually get a taste of the medicine he’s dished out to dozens and dozens of women over the years – and that’s good. Nobody deserves a crazy partner more than him. If you have anything to do with either of these two clowns, professionally or personally, you must be as nuts as they are. Total dissaster!

    • Crazy meets CrazierOctober 26, 2018 at 1:48 PM

      Dwayne is a complete sociopath and very troubled man. Dwayne has severe untreated mental health issues and it seems he has finally found an equally sociopathic partner. It is absolutely terrifying for Debbie’s family. This guy is not well. He has absolutely no self-awareness of his mental health issues and will never seek treatment. He just looks for new victims and carries on. Debbie, you’re the next one and unfortunately you won’t be the last. Dwayne is for the alimony payments to come in so you guys can go to Pensacola and relive Dwayne’s minor league hockey glory days.

      • In Dwayne's own words...GrossOctober 30, 2018 at 5:36 PM

        Dwayne has been on the hunt for a meal ticket ever since his so-so hockey career died in 2011. Why do you think he goes for older divorced or soon to be divorced moms? It’s pretty obvious. I hope Debbie Calladine’s ex-husband gets that.

  8. Nobody is buying itOctober 17, 2018 at 10:50 AM

    Debbie you are not fooling anyone, only yourself. Dumb, desperate, delusional, deceptive, dispicable, Debbie. Some things never change. Everyone thinks your a joke. And Kevin we all sure hope you are smart enough to protect yourself and the kids. NOTHING real about this woman. Superficial and ZERO substance. Only thing that’s real is her fat ass.

  9. ClassyOctober 7, 2018 at 1:34 PM

    The way Debbie is behaving after a 20+ year marriage ends is classless. The only thing Dwayne is good at is his porn style f***ing. That’s what Debbie is addicted to. That’s how he gets them and that’s how he keeps them coming back. Other than his f***ing skills (which get weirder and weirder as time goes on) he is cruel, mentally abusive, manipulative, a con artist and the biggest liar I have ever met. His “ working on himself to be a better person” is bull***t. It’s all lies. I think Dwayne is horrific. I hope her ex keeps all of this in mind when deciding on a settlement. He’s handling this break up like a gentleman. Kids first.

    • Says it allOctober 12, 2018 at 8:21 AM

      It’s pretty obvious that Debbie’s family doesn’t like Dwayne or what’s going on between them. Her sister spent Thanksgiving with Debbie’s ex and their kids! Kind of says it all. What a stupid woman. Ruins her family and her reputation for this loser. Glad to see that Debbie’s family at least isn’t falling for it.

  10. ?October 3, 2018 at 7:24 AM

    Yet he still manages to have a business, gain clients, and get women. I’ll never understand.

    • B.S.October 3, 2018 at 8:33 PM

      Put it in perspective. All flash, no substance. It looks good on social, that’s all. Beyond that, nothing. D&D are nothing more than self generated social media peronalities who either steal or rely on Valentus sponsorship to fund their “envy worthy travel.” Don’t buy into it. It’s all just smoke, ego, an attempt to profiteer. These two are terrible, and anyone with any brains (and money) will know it.

      • Legends in their own headsOctober 5, 2018 at 10:56 PM

        Debbie Calladine is more concerned about her online image and “being in love” than being a good mother. That’s obvious. Hay is just the way he’s always been – clinging to the next hope of what might make him feel respected, admired and successful. I’ve never seen any two people more desperately alike.

  11. AdviceOctober 2, 2018 at 9:39 PM

    Here’s a truth tip for anyone that’s on the fence about Dwayne Hay, his current woman, or anything else he’s associated with: Good people and successful/smart people don’t behave the way he does, period. We all make mistakes, but there’s a difference between a mistake and a pattern. Dwayne Hay is almost 42, and his new arm candy Debbie Calladine isnt any younger. If neither of them has got things sorted by now in their lives they never will. Steer clear of these two. Bad news.

  12. Undeniable ???October 2, 2018 at 8:11 PM

    Anybody who pays this lying, cheating, stealing A-hole to coach and mentor their kids is a fool. Dwayne Hay doesn’t have an honest or honorable bone in his body. It’s been proven over and over again. This new hockey development company he’s started up is a mindbender. Hard to believe in the hockey community, where families are tight and word gets around, that anyone would let him near their kids anymore – never mind around wives/moms. If you want to get taken to the cleaners by a two faced whackjob and his capitalizing girlfriend go ahead. There are lots of skill development coaches and companies out there. Don’t get into bed with someone who’s screwed THOUSANDS – literally and figuratively.

  13. Who’s Using Who?September 16, 2018 at 8:37 PM

    Is it wrong for me to say that I actually feel bad for Dwayne in this situation? He’s being used by Debbie Calladine to promote her image and sell Valentus products. Not that he doesn’t deserve to be used. He’s done plenty of that over his lifetime. I think she’s worse than he is though, in terms of being fake and taking advantage of others. Pretty clear why he’s “all in” with this one…she’s just like him, only two steps ahead.

    • ExSeptember 27, 2018 at 9:34 AM

      You personally must not have not been duped by douche bag Hay if you feel bad for him. He deserves every bad thing coming his way, karma’s a b1tch.

      • Just wowSeptember 27, 2018 at 8:47 PM

        Calladine has got him selling Valentus products, wearing matching fake leather jackets, posting workout vids and marketing his training services on and off ice, here there and everywhere. The guy is hugely screwed up, no doubt, which is why he’s been a d1ck to everyone he’s ever met forever. He’ll always be a d1ck, but for now, he’s also Debbie Calladine’s puppet.

  14. FraudSeptember 5, 2018 at 10:26 PM

    Dwayne Hay is a total fraud and Debbie Calladine is a self absorbed idiot. That’s all there is to it. They think they’ve got the world by the tail when all they’re really doing is chasing their own tails round and round. It’s funny to watch, except for the hurt her kids have suffered. Two known cheaters and liars (and one theif – at least that I know of) who live in different cities, have known each other less than 4 months and splash their filtered pics all over social media = total crap. Dwayne will crack up sooner or later because he always does. Just a matter of time. All flash with these two, like some sad watered down D-grade celebrity couple that’s constantly trying to get attention to win points and make money. Anybody who hires Dwayne is a fool. He robs people blind, has no ethics and no shame. In his own words…GROSS

  15. Too smart to fool meSeptember 1, 2018 at 11:31 AM

    I’ve read through most of these comments and they are all bang on. I watched DH manipulate and deceive my friend, while at the same time telling me I was “the one” and he was falling in love. Ummm WTF? Luckily my guy and my brain kept me far away from him.

    He has always loved the married women and you get bonus points if you have any type of assists or money in the bank. I first felt sorry for his new victim, but if she has seen all of this and hasn’t run….she will get what she deserves. So sad for her kids.

  16. Shoulda known betterAugust 25, 2018 at 8:02 AM

    Annnndddd…. Cha-Ching…
    The boy is CA$HING in Lolol

  17. Not worth your timeAugust 17, 2018 at 2:40 PM

    Don’t get too worked up over these two. Total joke and a disaster waiting to happen. Not worth the effort to bother with it.

  18. Worst peopleAugust 8, 2018 at 7:38 PM

    Isn’t it funny (and obvious) that every time Debbie gets a chance now to post pics of herself and “her girl” Alexa with #loveher hashtags all whatever other crap she attaches, she takes the opportunity full force? All filtered and fake, just like always – Debbie Calladine’s signature move. Hey, Deb – newsflash. Your daughter is 11. All she wants is her mom to be around and devoted to her (rather than off with some douche who broke up her family.) Where’s all the lovey dovey pics of you and your son? Oh that’s right – he won’t have anything to do with you now, or your boyfriend – ever. Good choices, mom! Really putting your kids front and center in the sh*tstorm you created in their lives. Debbie Calladine: worst/most fake mom/person/wife I’ve run into. Dwayne Hay: just a user and abuser. Both of them desperate, f’d up and totally about themselves. If it weren’t such a big disaster for her kids, I’d laugh my head off over it all.

  19. TellingAugust 3, 2018 at 7:15 PM

    Any 40-something woman who uses Snapchat filters that make her look like a Disney character, and the Facebook “sparkle” filter when she’s videoing an explainatuon about her separation is a deeply insecure person with the mentality of a 10 year old child. Dwayne loves it for now, because she’s all about him and too stupid to know better. She’ll continue to be stupid and childish, and he’ll continue to be a lying scumbag, and they’ll wake up at some point and realize neither of them is what the other one thought they were. Hard to believe that any two people could be so deluded.

    • Wake up everyoneAugust 4, 2018 at 7:22 AM

      Let’s call a spade a spade here. Nobody in this situation is innocent including Kevin. When you watch your wife screw other men for your own sick pleasure is twisted. Debbie the fact that you say you did this was to be a good wife is a joke. It was your ticket to be the sloot you are. This woman couldn’t be any more fake. These 3 get what they deserve unfortunately the kids will be affected. What does your son think? Your daughter? Debbie everyone knows you were sleeping with this nightmare dwayne while married. You are not fooling anyone but yourself. Your are a joke around town. Shame on you. How old are you? And the snapchat filters…wow. you are NOTHING that you say you are. Just like dwayne. Can’t wait to watch this one blow up. Dumb dumb debbie.

      • StunnerAugust 6, 2018 at 10:36 AM


  20. TruthAugust 1, 2018 at 9:55 AM

    Do these two (DH and DC) feel people will actually follow their fitness regime? What credentials do they have? Do they think they are internet super stars who people want to follow? They are both delusional. She can barely speak in her vids with all the Botox, hard to watch someone talke when their lips don’t move, she’d make a good ventriloquist. Combined these 2 have an IQ of a rock.

  21. Another ExJuly 31, 2018 at 6:24 PM

    I talked to Debbie too. Gave her straight up answers to everything she asked me. The woman simply doesn’t want to hear or believe the truth. Right now, all she wants to do is walk around in la-la land (i.e. Dwayne’s made up fantasy life) and put it all on display in a completely transparent and pathetic effort to boost her own ego and elevate her image – just like Dwayne loves to do. She’s obviously a very screwed up and not so bright person – which is actually perfect for Dwayne, because he’ll be able to lead her down the garden path a long, long way. She WANTS to buy what he’s selling her. That’s all there is to it. At some point though she’ll realize she’s with a pure narcissist who’s basically flat broke, has a really short fuse and also an explosive temper. My prediction is it’ll implode about a year from now over money. Neither one of them makes any money to speak of and yet both of them love it a whole lot. Dwayne doesn’t have a hope in hell of ever being a provider, and Valentus will never give her financial stability (what a joke that whole thing is.) My advice to her ex? Draw a firm line on finances. Keep the house, raise your daughter and send Debbie packing. She’ll figure out fast what Dwayne’s really about. He’s is an expert when it comes to finding ways to live off someone else, and Debbie Calladine is a perfect target for it – all wishful thinking and no brains. Dwayne will have Debbie paying for whatever he can (Kevin paying for it, that is.) Make them live off their own incomes and watch what happens. They’ll fall apart fast because it won’t be possible to fake their way through anymore – no more la-la land to walk around in. When life gets real, and it always does, their fangs will start to show. Protect your daughter from what’s coming, Kevin. Debbie obviously won’t.

  22. ExJuly 31, 2018 at 1:11 PM

    Dwayne is a scary man. That’s why I have never told my story. He’s not who he says he is. This is Debbie’s journey. Not ours.

    • Another oneAugust 1, 2018 at 1:39 PM

      I’m also a victim. Dwayne is a monster. It’s that simple. Every new girl thinks she is the one….and in Dwaynes words “life changing” yes Debbie he has told other women that line too. Wake up before it’s too late. Just a matter of time. This guy needs to be stopped. Dangerous dangerous man. Stupid stupid woman.

    • Recent Ex...July 31, 2018 at 5:01 PM

      I think there are a lot of us who feel the same. Dwayne is not the man you think he is when you start out. I felt ashamed and embarrassed for the way things happened after the fact. But, he seems to be a pro at this and wee practised. This is Debbie’s journey, it’s just unfortunate that she will have to feel the way we do and not take note of the warnings. I wish someone had of warned me.

  23. ExJuly 31, 2018 at 7:23 AM

    I was a victim of this guy back in 2002ish. I reached out to Debbie to tell her my story and she said she had been warned by others also and disregarded everything that was said. From that point on I felt she was on her own. I told her on behalf of her future self run. Any woman in the future who engages in a relationship with “D” deserves what she gets ….. These Dirty pages are 100% true and accurate. ANY human male or female who chooses to believe his words whether business or personal and not this site is delusional. If his lips are moving I promise he is lying.

    • 100%July 31, 2018 at 6:45 PM

      OMG – Where’s the “like” button??? Same here (although he found me several years later.) I know it’s all true, just like you do. Man – I wish we could start a private Facebook group for anyone who got hurt or played by Dwayne Hay. There would be a lot of members and we’d all have a lot in common.

  24. CuriousJuly 30, 2018 at 2:09 PM

    Just wondering why there have not been any comments from his old gf’s. I would think they would have something to say. No?

  25. Sick and sadJuly 29, 2018 at 4:43 PM

    Debbie’s family have all tried to talk to her about this. She’s not listening to anyone. Literally nobody close to her is supporting her. She’s going to be one sad woman when she finally figures out Dwayne isn’t what he claims to be. She thinks she’s landed this great guy who makes a ton of money because that’s what Dwayne wants her to think. His charade is really thin. Can’t believe she fell for it. Her poor kids. Just the worst.

    • Shocked...not reallyJuly 30, 2018 at 2:43 PM

      Why is anyone surprised DC fell for him. Never was all that bright…pretty but zero substance here. How embarrassing for her when it falls apart…and it will. This gal was a dirty little wife in her marriage anyway…Its not the first time she has strayed from her husband…right Kevin…
      She really should have her own page on here. Both belong together as far as we can all tell. Dumb dumb Debbie…we all knew it before…now its confirmed. What a blind bitch.

  26. LuciielioJuly 25, 2018 at 7:10 PM

    Apparently dwayne’s dad died a couple years ago as he was fishing for some funeral costs from me… ha! Apparently cancer…

    • Starting to wonderJuly 26, 2018 at 7:26 AM

      Dwayne has been saying his dad has cancer for several years and also that his dad refuses treatment. Dwayne’s dad is still very much alive. I can’t believe anyone would lie about someone having cancer, but I’m starting to wonder. I don’t know if it’s true and dwayne uses it as a way to get money out of people, or whether it’s a lie he’s spun for the same reason. What’s really stupid is, if Dwayne makes the kind of money he says he does why would he need to get money from anybody else for anything??? Dude is F’d.

  27. LucielouJuly 25, 2018 at 6:30 PM

    He asked me for money to help pay for his dad’s funeral expenses a couple years ago! I think his Dad is still alive!!!??

  28. YepJuly 24, 2018 at 5:11 PM

    Whatever sense of (non)reality these two have is laughable. Trolling the dating sites is the ultimate vacation bonus for this boy. It’s a pattern. Really, what woman would pass up an opportunity to (likely fund) an amazing vacation with an athletic and highly educated professional like this specimen ? Married/separated? No problem – certainly the kidz can work thru the trauma with a therapist. High scores to both for their selfie skills, documenting a highly (filtered) romantic trip, amazing bodies (plastic included), and low intellect. They believe it – why shouldn’t we? Barf. I think I’ve just vomited in my mouth.

  29. Dumb and dumberJuly 23, 2018 at 7:23 AM

    I’m actually loving this (other than the fact that a young girl is being hurt – that is terrible.) It looks like Dwayne has finally met his match – and not in a good way. He’s a AAA hockey coach and she’s a mom, and clearly neither one of them gives a f*ck about kids at all – not even hers. How stupid and hypocritical can you be? Any mother who can do what Debbie Calladine is doing to her daughter is a real piece of work. Good luck with that one, Dwayne! She’ll give you headaches like you’ve never had.
    They deserve each other. They’re both terrible people who are totally self absorbed and all about #1 – themself. It’s kind of perfect actually.

  30. How Low Can You GoJuly 19, 2018 at 5:39 PM

    Well.. clearly Mr. Scumbags latest fling is proving ..”publicly” how pathetic they both really are. It is evident that she is not placing the best interest of her child before him. I believe, that in the courts eyes, that would be a definitive case of an ‘unfit’ Mother! Clearly the absence of morals, and parental guidance to be raising a child. If her ex has any Fatherly concern, he should allow and not settle, for anything but supervised visits. I wouldn’t want my child anywhere near a skank like Dwayne Hay.
    Debbie and Dwayne.. cut from the same cloth. How pseudo.. all the “likes and loves”… from people you have never met.. oh..right.. the VALENTUS CULT.. how empty and desperate you two must be.

    • Selfish and ShallowJuly 19, 2018 at 8:03 PM

      Dwayne is well known for being a scumbag – lies, cheats, steals, so it’s no surprise he didn’t think twice about breaking up another family and helping to inflict emotional damage on an 11-year old girl. What’s shocking is that her mother is doing it now too. Goes to show how poisonous Dwayne is, and how desperate and mindless Debbie Calladine is. For any mother to willfully inflict this kind of pain on her own daughter makes her not only selfish and shallow, but also fully inept as a parent. You wanted out of your marriage, Debbie? Fine. Lots of people get divorced. But the fact that you couldn’t and wouldn’t leave Kevin without first getting involved with this train wreck says everything about you as a person and a mother. Especially because you knew full well what Dwayne is all about when you did it. Cheating, lying, and then posting your “relationship” all over social media where your daughter can and will surely see it is the lowest form of awful. This is all new to Alexa – she is reeling from her family breaking up just a few weeks ago, and you’re off vacationing with the guy you screwed around on her dad with – and bragging about it. How sick are you??? You’re hurting your daughter. Try to get that through your head.

      Debbie Calladine needs her own page on The Dirty. She’s as bad or worse as Dwayne. When this farce of a relationship craters (and it will) she’ll be on the hunt for someone who can actually support her, and those guys should know what she’s about.

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