Michelle Haynes of Kingston

Michelle Haynes of Kingston

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, Michelle Haynes has never gotten along with her second daughter as well as she has with the first daughter and her son. They have never seen eye to eye on anything. Michelle wanted her daughter to wear dresses and be more girly and never understood her daughters passion and need for arts. (Mainly musical) As a child her daughter started to distance herself from everyone due to her mothers constant disappointment, mood swings, insults, judgment, and comments. Her daughter grew up sheltering herself in her bedroom listening to music or writing music trying to escape to a brighter world. It wasn’t until her daughter was older that a friend helped her realize that she was dealing with anxiety when she would spend hours in her room as an antisocial kid. Her mother Michelle told her on several occasions that she was living in a fantasy world and needed to wake up and face reality. She didn’t do well in school, so she went to a second chance program where she met a man (Mike Dwyer) the first little while went good in the relationship but then she noticed he wasn’t as nice as she thought. It turned fast into an abusive relationship.

After four years, she had two babies with him and could not take this abuse any more. She took him to court for custody but shortly after, her mother switched and backed him up instead. This man beat and raped her on several occasions. Michelle did not seem to care about what he did to her own daughter. She wrote affidavits against her slandering her in court. She would rather see her grandchildren abused by the man who abused her own daughter than see them safe and cared for. This mother deserves worst mother of the year award. A mother like this is no mother at all. It is a mothers duty to protect their child not harm them and to believe in their child not trash their dreams.. She was never a real mother. And any anxiety issues her daughter has she has them for a good reason. You can’t grow up with a parent like that and not have some issues.

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  1. Old friend shhhMay 15, 2018 at 7:59 AM

    Never liked her even as a teen. This filthy bitch can lick my dick cause dats all she gonna get. So glad I got landed with better parents then her. Like wow.

  2. Curly CarlyFebruary 27, 2018 at 2:38 PM

    Wow, bravo. Haha. I don’t think parent of the year will be going to you anytime soon. Pathetic parent of the year however is another story.

  3. GoodygoodJanuary 9, 2018 at 1:13 PM

    What kind of parent, parents like that. My opinion_ parents that take off and don’t raise their kid would be way better than this one. She takes the cake.

  4. J.sDecember 26, 2017 at 8:01 AM

    Shes ugly get your teeth fixed

  5. AnonymousDecember 24, 2017 at 9:21 AM

    How can you back up someone who hurt your own daughter/relative so bad? He is an ass. I don’t care what you think your money issues caused you stick by your family. She was brave enough to leave him you should be in her corner backing her up not encouraging his crap.

  6. AnonymousDecember 24, 2017 at 9:16 AM

    I am actually embarrassed to even know these people. There is something really wrong with this family. I am outraged at how they act and how they can treat their own. This isn’t a family I would want to be part of, no loyalty at all.

  7. DisgustedDecember 20, 2017 at 1:58 PM

    I know this has nothing too do with anything in this post but looking at the photo I was so disgusted with the teeth on this lady. Has she ever heard of a tooth brush or the Dentist?

    • SafireDecember 22, 2017 at 9:34 AM

      Lol yes, it looks terrible I agree. But if you get into an argument with the bitch she will literally get in your face and try to intimidate you. But she doesn’t even know that you’re not even scared you’re just grossed out by the stench of her breath. Cigarettes mixed with coffee, tea and whatever else she threw into the mix. I think her teeth are actually to a rotting state.

      • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 9:21 AM

        Can’t really say much, my teeth are stained. But at least they are not rotting. And they don’t smell like cigarettes.

  8. SafireDecember 19, 2017 at 7:07 PM

    Michelle you asked what steps I have taken to achieve my dreams. Well I started achieving my dreams when I was a kid. I started singing when I was probably around 3 or 4.. Began writing lyrics around 12 then started playing guitar around 15. This year I have written a lot more songs and even recorded one of them, still need to go back into the studio to work on it though. Ever since I was a young child I have said that I wanted to do MUSIC! I never once said that I wanted to be famous. Two different things. So technically I have been achieving my goals my whole life. In your face bitch!

    • Clay KDecember 20, 2017 at 8:22 AM

      Haha makes me laugh. But that’s totally true who says they want to be famous? Lol this is great. Keep doing what you love.

      • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 9:19 AM

        If you’ve been achieving your goals since you were a kid then you’re doing better than me.

  9. SafireDecember 19, 2017 at 8:04 AM

    Everyone has been laughing at you Michelle because everything you say is joke after Joke after JOKE! Like when you wrote in the affidavit that I was a teenager in 1998. Everyone got a good chuckle out of that one cause everyone knows I was 5 going on 6 in 98. Are you really that stupid? I’d be in my 30s by now and I’m only mid 20s. Dumb Ass!

    • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 9:16 AM

      Omfg thats how you know its because the bitch is so old. Shes lost her memory, she can’t even remember her kids age.

  10. SafireDecember 19, 2017 at 5:44 AM

    So Michelle, Why did you tell Dwight that I owe you 2 Grand but then tell Laura that I owe you over 10 Grand? That doesn’t make sense! Getting caught in lies again. I kept telling you to STOP spending money! It’s not my fault you have spending issues. Stop blaming me for your problem, grow up and take responsibility for yourself your almost 50 that’s pathetic!

    • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 9:13 AM

      Well maybe shes just getting old and crazy and blaming others for her problems.

  11. LynnDecember 18, 2017 at 2:18 PM

    So very sad…it’s one thing to disagree with your own flesh and blood but to completely turn around and do what you people are doing is so wrong in so many ways. If your child needs help, then you help them, support them, not do everything in your power to destroy them. It’s sickening and saddening how the entire family has turned against their own daughter rather then do everything to support her…even if you choose not to support her, what you are ALL doing is absolutely insane and horrible. She’s your flesh and blood. You should all be ashamed of yourselves. You’ve definitely all portrayed just exactly how cruel and callous you all are with your posts and poking at her. That some special family ties you have there but hey! it’s all about raising the kids all together if I remember correctly. I only hope that the cycle gets broken some day but by the looks of things it will be passed down from generation to generation as it has been all along. Very terrified for what my own granddaughter has to be around on a daily basis…good thing she has her daddy, Danielle, Zoe, her aunt Safire, myself and her uncles…without us she wouldn’t have a chance at learning anything such as family values, morals, Love, self respect, schooling/education, cleaning and hygiene…just to name a few :)

    • SafireDecember 18, 2017 at 4:35 PM

      Thanks Lynn, you’re right. The kids are suffering around them. They’re all morons, they don’t care about the kids. I mean they really think my children are safe with Michael, and he beats and rapes women and he abuses and neglects the kids. Nobody wants to do anything, when did everyone stop caring about children?

  12. RickDecember 18, 2017 at 11:41 AM

    Funny. Just funny. Maybe it’s best if she didn’t try to defend herself. Cause she’s just adding to the entertainment. She’s really just getting herself caught in lies. I’m laughing just reading the comments and I agree what Michelle is saying makes no sense at all. Oh and I noticed she called Michelle out on pretending to be Rick so I thought everyone was allowed to do that. Lmfao!

  13. SafireDecember 17, 2017 at 9:44 AM

    Another clue to help everyone know that it is indeed Michelle typing and Not Richard. Michelle types kinda like the way she talks and tries to make herself (seem) like more of a person you wouldn’t want to mess with. Also her typing is actually pretty crappy. She does not go back and look for spelling mistakes and the grammar sucks. Like I’ve said before PATHETIC!

  14. HighschoolbuddyDecember 17, 2017 at 7:06 AM

    I new all of you growing up and no matter what you say Michelle you were always a bitch to your younger daughter. I never liked how you treated her differently. And I agree with everything this post says. And I find it amusing that you try to defend yourself with stories and she tears them apart and proves how untrue they are.

    • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 9:03 AM

      I know Im amused

  15. SafireDecember 17, 2017 at 3:43 AM

    People hosting auditions are professional and have to stay professional. They do Not tell people they are “Tone Deaf” It’s not like they’re judges on a talent show trying to get more views by telling people how much they suck. Stop adding crap to your ridiculous stories!

  16. SafireDecember 16, 2017 at 6:20 PM

    Just so you know, people who host auditions are professionals and have to stay professional. They do Not call people “Tone Deaf” It’s not like they’re judges on some talent show and they need more views by tearing people down inside. Stop adding stupid crap to your ridiculous stories.

    • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 9:01 AM

      This is true. My cousin has gone to a few and they were always professional. They never make you feel bad about your talent or hobbies. If they did they would not be in the right business.

  17. SafireDecember 16, 2017 at 2:55 PM

    Also people hosting auditions are professionals and need to stay professional. They do Not call people “tone deaf” It’s not like they’re judges on a popular talent show and they’re seeking more viewers. Stop being ridiculous! And quit adding crap to your pathetic stories.

  18. SafireDecember 16, 2017 at 11:56 AM

    Nothing you say makes sense, you’re so delusional! If it really was “Rick” commenting then why would he refer to himself? Nothing is about him. Just making yourself look even more pathetic.

    • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 8:56 AM

      Looks like the daughter is smarter this is great.

  19. SafireDecember 9, 2017 at 7:33 AM

    I don’t go to the bus stop I heard that from someone else but its believable.. Cause I know what kind of pig he is.. And you obviously don’t remember any of my friends in elementary school or high school. Here’s a few to refresh your memory.. Kaitlin ×2, Tamara, Elizabeth, Alex ×2, Kelly ×2, Jackie, Sam, Jordan, Michael, Natasha, Gavin, Josh, Jeff, Allen.. And you say I’m the one with the memory issues.. Wow you’ve met most of The people I hung out with, even took pictures of them with me. But like I said you just don’t pay attention and nothing you say makes sense.

  20. RickDecember 8, 2017 at 1:39 PM

    I thought you have memorie issuse, you did’nt have any friends growing up because you stayed in your room, we tried to get you involved with boys and girls club day camps in the summer the list goes on. I could write a novel on all of you lies and it would be a best seller. Title would be ” The lies I believe” by debbie aka safire. If mike is so abusive then why are you stalking him at the bus stop.

    • SafireDecember 21, 2017 at 1:26 PM

      When did I apparently stalk that loser at the bus stop? Did he say this? Or is this something you’re making up again Michelle? Everything you say is A LIE! Do you have a video of me “Stalking” this bastard at the bus stop. If you want to make up rumors about me stalking people you better have the evidence. Michael recorded me randomly walking to a dentist appointment. So I think if I were to actually stalk him he would record that as well and get the cops involved. And I don’t stalk losers! Instead of spreading rumors you can’t back up how about trying something new. Maybe the truth, oh but that might still make you look bad. Both of your families are nothing but a JOKE!

  21. SafireDecember 8, 2017 at 7:52 AM

    How about this.. Mikes affidavit says that I discipline the kids to an “abusive level” and your affidavit said that I “Don’t discipline the kids At All.” This is why I wouldn’t trust a thing anyone in that messed up family says cause nothing matches up and nothing ever makes sense! You guys are pathetic!

    • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 8:47 AM

      Sounds like the family of liars need to get together and go over the lies before they start spreading them.

  22. Insider101December 8, 2017 at 4:57 AM

    Nik this female is an absolute disgrace to the family…The situation? Hilarious lol pat yourself on the back because mother of the year award wont be going to you your daughter or your niece. Pathetic excuses of women. How a person could do what yous have done and are doing to your own child/relative is unbelievable. And the grandchildren…being groomed for disaster…self respect? That you have to have because nobody else respects you. And look in the mirror…you ugly…inside and out!!

    • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 8:44 AM

      Why can’t this be Fb so I can hit the like button?

  23. MichelleDecember 7, 2017 at 4:40 PM

    Yes I said you live in a fantasy world because she does not because of her Dre. Of bei g a swinging wasn’t wanting to work towards getting her dreams and I’m sorry things are not going to be handed to you you have to work for them but that so.ething this circle knows little about so I still believe she lives in a fantasy world prove me wrong g what steps have she attempted for her dreams to come true it.takes hard work and dedication

  24. MichelleDecember 7, 2017 at 4:30 PM

    You know something i haveenough respect for my self and self esteem say what you want and speckyour lies karma willhappen or enough people will make it happen Debbie I’m glad you have found friends to bad she doesn’t have a jo and can sit at a keyboard trying to destroy people lives.she must not haveenough self esteem or self image or is she still wearing those rose coloured glasses you know with the depression.and all have a good day

    • SafireDecember 9, 2017 at 4:19 AM

      Once again makes no sense! By asking is she still wearing those rose colored glasses? That automatically makes it seem as if I’m looking at everything positively. If you actually paid attention, this year has been all negativity and several years of negativity from you. Get a BRAIN!

      • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 8:40 AM

        Maybe she got into a fight and they beat her so bad now she has brain damage

  25. SafireDecember 7, 2017 at 2:49 PM

    Oh wow she actually used her name instead of her husbands name this time lol and that person might not have been there during my childhood but I recently reconnected with an old friend who was there as a kid and a teenager and he never liked the way you treated me either. He said you were a “Bitch” and anyone with a brain would agree!

    • RickDecember 8, 2017 at 1:01 PM

      The post’s you see with Rick in them is Rick commenting on these post’s . Your a joke getting people to believe your lies.

  26. MichelleDecember 6, 2017 at 5:32 PM

    Anyone that knows the situation and me first hand knows the truth and anyone else I couldn’t care less what you think

    • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 8:38 AM

      Well of course you would say that. The post is about you right? LMAO

  27. RickDecember 6, 2017 at 11:34 AM

    Do you have the balls to talk trash but not to give your name. You were not there when the kids were growing up her life was not as bad as she makes it out to be. So all I have to say is you van believe her lies. When she is done with you, she will talk trash about you mark my words. I have a good idea who this is so mind your own business and move on.

    • Real Fast...December 6, 2017 at 4:38 PM

      Just for clarification, are you implying I’m ‘trash talking’ the subject of this post because I can put two and two together? Or because I’m using the words you’ve publicly posted against you?
      If you don’t like what I’m saying, don’t act like garbage, and I won’t have trash to talk about? Because not once have I said anything about the OP, solely commenting on what you’ve said.
      I do like what you say about believing lies though, because you’re right, most of the people who wind up on this website ARE morally positive and overall good people for society. Oh wait. Nope. Most of the people on this sight are trash… Like I said, I don’t have much else to do, trolling is fun.
      Should I use someone else’s name too when I post comments? Or is that just considered keyboard balls?

      • Just4kicksDecember 25, 2017 at 8:36 AM

        Keyboard balls love it! And who says “Mark my words” ? Thats just stupid kind of makes you sound old and crazy.

  28. Real Fast...December 6, 2017 at 10:43 AM

    LOL seriously? lemme just write two huge paragraphs before I end with ‘having better things to do’. Obviously not
    I don’t either. So. Split personality much, or is this just part of the bi-polar ness? I’m referring of course to this post of Michelle Haynes, yet the comments being from Rick. Do you know who you are today? And ooh Christmas presents? So supportive.. Sticking up against a teacher.. Kudos to admitting at one point you were on your daughter’s side. But uh, those are both just things parents do, like staying home while the kids sleep, aka not needing a babysitter? Your intelligence shows through your comments.
    But by all means, if you’re continuing to have problems with a child YOU’VE raised, go on. This is fun to troll.

  29. RickDecember 5, 2017 at 6:05 PM

    I find it funny how you can talk all kinds of trash and that you can’t look in the mirror and see where you have made mistakes, what am I thinking your right about everything mmmmm not. We never supported you with the arts ok thats funny. I remember getting you musical instruments for christmas if that was’nt supporting you I guess when we took you to Toronto for a music audition and when the coordinator looked at you and said you need singing lessons that you were tone deaf we tried to defend you. But I guess that was’nt support. So you might want to get off your horse. One more point I would like to say is that we have better things to do then post this trash.

    • Clay KDecember 6, 2017 at 7:35 PM

      I find it funny that you don’t know the difference between buying musical toys and actually supporting your own child’s dreams and goals. What kind of parent tells there child they live in a fantasized world? I don’t care what kind of dream it is, as the parent you support them. And you should be treating all your kids equally.

      • Clay KDecember 10, 2017 at 4:49 PM

        I didn’t say that they were “kids toys” but you can continue to say that you bought her all this expensive stuff. That is still not the same as supporting her and what she wants to do. You are the one who admitted to saying she lives in a fantisized world right? That’s great parenting.

      • RickDecember 9, 2017 at 11:17 AM

        Hey clay k you say it was musical toys wrong how about a full size electric keyboard, a recorder and a gutair do they sound like kid toys so you need to stay out of this you are being mislead.

  30. RickDecember 5, 2017 at 5:11 PM

    I find it very funny that she can talk trash but she doesn’t tell of the electric keyboard or other instuments, taking her to Toronto for a music audition and when they looked at her and said you need to take music lessons we were there for her. But that right we did not support her in any way what about us putting her up in a bachelor apartment moving out of affordable housing to a much nicer much bigger house in a good neighood for 1375 plus with my credit on the line how about taking out a loan to provide clothing food belonging for her children which I haven’t got a dime back and my credit is totally screwed how about the fact that she was verbally abusive and threnthed to hit me after I had a stroke she picks on the weak well I’m proud to say that I take better care of myself and way more physically fit I like to see the coward confront me now and when I started to read mikes mother affidavit I saw some truth in it her comment such as the kids are sleeping they don’t need a babysitting or not feeding the kids meal they needed to eat snacks all day everything in this post it’s funny yes I have a better relationship with my daughter Alexis and son Chris yes she use to spend countless hours in her room by herself yes I said once that she lives in a fantasize world only because she wants to be famous but doesn’t want to work for it she feel entitle to it she was also going on the enter net looking for someone to do music videos she was about 15 well her behaviour hasn’t changed she paid 400 dollars for a video instead of feeding her children

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