Michelle Haynes of Kingston
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, Michelle Haynes has never gotten along with her second daughter as well as she has with the first daughter and her son. They have never seen eye to eye on anything. Michelle wanted her daughter to wear dresses and be more girly and never understood her daughters passion and need for arts. (Mainly musical) As a child her daughter started to distance herself from everyone due to her mothers constant disappointment, mood swings, insults, judgment, and comments. Her daughter grew up sheltering herself in her bedroom listening to music or writing music trying to escape to a brighter world. It wasn’t until her daughter was older that a friend helped her realize that she was dealing with anxiety when she would spend hours in her room as an antisocial kid. Her mother Michelle told her on several occasions that she was living in a fantasy world and needed to wake up and face reality. She didn’t do well in school, so she went to a second chance program where she met a man (Mike Dwyer) the first little while went good in the relationship but then she noticed he wasn’t as nice as she thought. It turned fast into an abusive relationship.
After four years, she had two babies with him and could not take this abuse any more. She took him to court for custody but shortly after, her mother switched and backed him up instead. This man beat and raped her on several occasions. Michelle did not seem to care about what he did to her own daughter. She wrote affidavits against her slandering her in court. She would rather see her grandchildren abused by the man who abused her own daughter than see them safe and cared for. This mother deserves worst mother of the year award. A mother like this is no mother at all. It is a mothers duty to protect their child not harm them and to believe in their child not trash their dreams.. She was never a real mother. And any anxiety issues her daughter has she has them for a good reason. You can’t grow up with a parent like that and not have some issues.