Watch Out For Joel May of Ottawa
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, just need to give a warning to all the ladies out there on this one. We met on POF so really shouldn’t be surprised right. Joel May came over and honestly o didn’t think I was interested in him by his profile. Interests “beer” should have been. Warning sign but I thought I could resist. He came over and we actually hit it off. Happens frequently with narcissists. They know what to say. He ended up coming over every day for the first week. We planned a thanksgiving dinner. Things were looking great. One week in he tells me he loves me. He was drunk so I should have known and I clarified the next day what love was. We agreed we loved being with each other but not necessarily in love.
A few more weeks goes by at this point he’s told me he wants to be with me and actually loves me. I keep trying to clarify because free everytime he says it he gets weird. Finally we talk he does love me but my “health” as he calls it is an issue. Eventually I’m told that he really does love me but he would be embarrassed to introduce me to the mother of his children. She would laugh at him. Did I mention the day before how he mentioned how amazing and honest and loyal and beautiful I am? Anyways, after the embarrassed thing comes out, he states he wants to create a new POF account to make “friends.” We are still only seeing each other, but he needs more girls in his life I guess. Lol Like what a joke, right? Meets up with some chick. Find out but he swears it’s just for friends. Anyways, ladies, he just doesn’t know what he wants and will keep you around saying anything he can just to not lose how well you treat him. Just watch out.