Watch Out For Joel May of Ottawa

Watch Out For Joel May of Ottawa

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, just need to give a warning to all the ladies out there on this one. We met on POF so really shouldn’t be surprised right. Joel May came over and honestly o didn’t think I was interested in him by his profile. Interests “beer” should have been. Warning sign but I thought I could resist. He came over and we actually hit it off. Happens frequently with narcissists. They know what to say. He ended up coming over every day for the first week. We planned a thanksgiving dinner. Things were looking great. One week in he tells me he loves me. He was drunk so I should have known and I clarified the next day what love was. We agreed we loved being with each other but not necessarily in love.

A few more weeks goes by at this point he’s told me he wants to be with me and actually loves me. I keep trying to clarify because free everytime he says it he gets weird. Finally we talk he does love me but my “health” as he calls it is an issue. Eventually I’m told that he really does love me but he would be embarrassed to introduce me to the mother of his children. She would laugh at him. Did I mention the day before how he mentioned how amazing and honest and loyal and beautiful I am? Anyways, after the embarrassed thing comes out, he states he wants to create a new POF account to make “friends.” We are still only seeing each other, but he needs more girls in his life I guess. Lol Like what a joke, right? Meets up with some chick. Find out but he swears it’s just for friends. Anyways, ladies, he just doesn’t know what he wants and will keep you around saying anything he can just to not lose how well you treat him. Just watch out.

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  1. Petty LabelleJuly 5, 2018 at 8:52 AM

    If this is the guy I think it is and he has a bunch of religious tattoos, then I very briefly “dated” him as well. I don’t know you personally but from the short time I knew him I can tell you that you’re better off. Mind you he wasn’t a player back then. Just some skinny awkward white boy who dressed up in very loose, knockoff urban attire and was scared what his religious granny thought about him LOL

  2. AottawaMarch 13, 2018 at 7:47 AM

    I used to see this dude about 6 years ago. Was a loser even then. I wouldn’t waste time being hurt by him.

  3. Alia LadyJanuary 29, 2018 at 7:09 AM

    You need some soul searching girl..

  4. UghDecember 18, 2017 at 4:20 AM

    Yeah and all those compliments aren’t real… obviously

  5. UghDecember 18, 2017 at 4:20 AM

    Ok first off

    1. Why would you trust a guy who looks like that

    2. Why would you trust a guy you met off POF AND that wanted to meet up in a private place for the very first meeting… ?

    3. It’s really easily to call everyone else narcissists when you keep falling for the idiocy and seeing it.

    • Wish I saw these earlierJanuary 3, 2018 at 6:59 AM

      No you are completely right. I was dumb and fell for it for sure. It was the holidays coming up so I was making stupid choices.

      Honestly I only wanted to hang out that’s why he seemed like a decent choice. Thought I could say no but he does look a little better in person.

      Again no more POF but I figured people should know. His new gf I guess didn’t get a chance to see this. Lol Though I had warned her and she knows he’s a bed wetter but loves him anyways. Lol

      ENJOY NICOLE SHAVER

  6. chric crackleDecember 4, 2017 at 7:15 AM

    Why are people surprised when they meet people on POF that aren’t what they seem? They wouldn’t be looking for strangers outside of their circle online if they were stand up people.

    • Wish I saw these earlierJanuary 3, 2018 at 6:56 AM

      Omg wish I had seen this earlier. And I can admit that I am just as much an idiot for believing anything. Hence why no more POF. Lol

      Uodate: Him and Nicole Shaver the quote on quote only looking for friends girl is now his girlfriend. Lol

      Just because I fell for it and I know it doesn’t mean I should warn others. I learn from my mistakes. Hahahah

      Let’s just hope he doesn’t piss in her bed one night all drunk. Lol

  7. Wish I saw these earlierJanuary 3, 2018 at 6:56 AM

    Omg wish I had seen this earlier. And I can admit that I am just as much an idiot for believing anything. Hence why no more POF. Lol

    Uodate: Him and Nicole Shaver the quote on quote only looking for friends girl is now his girlfriend. Lol

    Just because I fell for it and I know it doesn’t mean I should warn others. I learn from my mistakes. Hahahah

    Let’s just hope he doesn’t piss in her bed one night all drunk. Lol