Sleeping with married men for money/ benefits

Sleeping with married men for money/ benefits

THE DIRTY ARMY:  Well, it is sad to say but karma is the key here. This lady is totally out of control. Dated her for a month and in that time she had 4 plastered drunken events followed by days of self pitty and missing work. She is on and off every day, you never know what you are going to get. One moment she is telling you she cares and wants to keep you and literally an hour later it is leave me alone I need to figure stuff out. Then there is no communication at all for days. I was not sure why until I seen her again and she was again plastered drunk. Admitting to me she has been sleeping with a couple married male friends for money to help pay the bills. So women who are married and their husbands know this lady, keep an eye on him. She admitted it was just the day before she had slept with a married guy for money and that there also was some others as well. She calls it benefits because these men care about her and are her good good friends. She feels because their wife does not give them what they need she thinks it is ok for her to give them what they need. Really what friends do that to a friend?. I asked her why she just did not get a second job or hey, how about have some sled respect and morals and work towards dating one person and work into a relationship where you could both share life, bills and earnings to make life better !. She attracts men with her looks and then plays them for anything she can get from them. She admitted she has been doing this for many years now yet wants a real relationship. Her drunken events leads to come cuddle me I need you .. then when you get there she is plastered and complains about how sad her life has been then how mean all the men she has dated are to her.and then how good of a person she is. Yet not once did I see her prove her words of wanting to make life better by any actions. It was chaos for a month with her. Every time we were together all she did was complaio about her ex boyfriends and how they did her soooo wrong, yet obviously she has alot of of issues. Her self respect is zero and her morals are not even there anymore. She totally played the push pull game with me. One moment it was come here and the next was leave me alone. Like I have never seen such chaos In a person. She keeps you at Bay so she can have other men over. Constantly on her phone and messenger which I am sure she is talking with other men. She has a good routine going so I don’t think that will change. Even with me she blamed me and said it is my fault, yet I did everything to help lift her up, was kind, caring and giving until she admitted to me she slept with one guy in particular the day before she told me what was really going on. She promised me it would all stop and yet it continues as the next two days were all drunken plastered days and texting me to come cuddle her. She misses work and sleeps all day because she is sooo hung over and is doing self pitty parties. I can see why now the last couple guys she dated got upset at her. While she is playing you she is also lining up the next better thing because she knows you won’t stick around once a guy figures out all the drama. She begged me not to share what she is doing although, apparently she needs a public notice and maybe that will make her realize she needs to change her life and get help. This is not an I hate you post this is a beware post for all men in PG and wife’s of men that know her. She claims the married men she is sleeping with give her benefits like cash, dental, fix things for her and so on. In the mean time she truly is just acting like a floozy. Really sad to watch someone destroy themself. So here is too hoping she stops drinking and gets her shit together, though only oneself can fix oneself !! Though no one should fuk with people, play games and not expect the same in return. Karma !

— One hell of a way to expedite Karma

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  1. Ex boyfrindSeptember 1, 2018 at 2:46 PM

    Who ever the OP is here who posted this. This woman did pretty much the same thing to me. Played the same push pull game for weeks.Used me for stuff and buying boozee for her. When I clued in she was not only seeing me but multiple other guys It was over. yes she sent me some rude messages when I asked her wtf was going on. Then blamed me, said it was all my fault that it ended….f**king glad I ran for the hills too Karma here. Haha

  2. T From O.C.July 22, 2018 at 8:17 PM

    Fishing and Game catching is a skill.

  3. DevonJune 19, 2018 at 7:08 PM

    I work with the guy who posted this, his name is Robert bardsley,he stalked my co workers cousin as well plastered her name on this site as well,he works at canfor,and also at Obrien’s training,just a real loser, can’t be a man and walk away,

    • Co workerSeptember 3, 2018 at 3:48 AM

      Before you accuse some one of something you better have solid proof buddy. I know you and the guy you are accusing. Notice I am not using names here. Here is some Info for you. ….you know about the ( harrassment policy ) right ?. You know that no co-worker can harras another co-worker be it at work or in public, right?. You know that if ( HR ) catchs wind of this posting or the guy you are accusing see this, you could possibly find yourself in alot of deep water or possibly unemployed and for what ?? Some chick who is not your wife or girlfriend.. who is the true loser here !!!! My advise..remove his name you dumb ass !!

    • justafriendJune 22, 2018 at 11:37 AM

      Wow! I know this woman and there’s no truth to this slanderous post. I don’t know why anyone would try to destroy someone’s life by posting lies on social media, Robert Bardsley… WHO would do that to another human being except for a cold-hearted sociopath who has issues with rejection from a beautiful, intelligent woman? Please get help before you hurt, humiliate, threaten, stalk or endanger more women.

  4. voiceofreasonJune 16, 2018 at 8:08 PM

    Male or female, if they verbally try to convince you they are a good person……they aren’t, good honest people with integrity don’t have to convince others.

  5. NotadummyJune 16, 2018 at 7:53 PM

    You sound like a narcissistic d1ck who was dumped by this woman. Maybe you feel the only way to save your over-inflated ego is to portray her as a drunk, crazy person. You’re a true, blue loser. You probably made this threat to her if she wouldn’t go out with you and she refused anyway. I hope all women are aware of how creepy you really are…

  6. WTFJune 12, 2018 at 10:42 PM

    I have to say your are quite the man to trash someone and not sign your name.

    Why does this seem like some little b1tch whining? Look lady if you think that your man is cheating with this girl. Dump his a55, dont slag the girl. If he was a good guy he would keep it in his pants, period. You dont have to trash the girl.

    • DevonJune 18, 2018 at 1:43 PM

      Guys name is Robert bardsley, real winner,

    • DevonJune 18, 2018 at 1:02 PM

      His name is Robert bardsley

  7. KitJune 6, 2018 at 12:03 PM

    You sure you don’t have this mixed up with dirty Jana P

  8. TigreJune 5, 2018 at 7:24 PM

    She’s cute and sounds like a sweet girl.

  9. TigreJune 5, 2018 at 7:21 PM

    The OP should step up and support her financially so she won’t have to sleep with other men for money.

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