Sleeping with married men for money/ benefits
THE DIRTY ARMY: Well, it is sad to say but karma is the key here. This lady is totally out of control. Dated her for a month and in that time she had 4 plastered drunken events followed by days of self pitty and missing work. She is on and off every day, you never know what you are going to get. One moment she is telling you she cares and wants to keep you and literally an hour later it is leave me alone I need to figure stuff out. Then there is no communication at all for days. I was not sure why until I seen her again and she was again plastered drunk. Admitting to me she has been sleeping with a couple married male friends for money to help pay the bills. So women who are married and their husbands know this lady, keep an eye on him. She admitted it was just the day before she had slept with a married guy for money and that there also was some others as well. She calls it benefits because these men care about her and are her good good friends. She feels because their wife does not give them what they need she thinks it is ok for her to give them what they need. Really what friends do that to a friend?. I asked her why she just did not get a second job or hey, how about have some sled respect and morals and work towards dating one person and work into a relationship where you could both share life, bills and earnings to make life better !. She attracts men with her looks and then plays them for anything she can get from them. She admitted she has been doing this for many years now yet wants a real relationship. Her drunken events leads to come cuddle me I need you .. then when you get there she is plastered and complains about how sad her life has been then how mean all the men she has dated are to her.and then how good of a person she is. Yet not once did I see her prove her words of wanting to make life better by any actions. It was chaos for a month with her. Every time we were together all she did was complaio about her ex boyfriends and how they did her soooo wrong, yet obviously she has alot of of issues. Her self respect is zero and her morals are not even there anymore. She totally played the push pull game with me. One moment it was come here and the next was leave me alone. Like I have never seen such chaos In a person. She keeps you at Bay so she can have other men over. Constantly on her phone and messenger which I am sure she is talking with other men. She has a good routine going so I don’t think that will change. Even with me she blamed me and said it is my fault, yet I did everything to help lift her up, was kind, caring and giving until she admitted to me she slept with one guy in particular the day before she told me what was really going on. She promised me it would all stop and yet it continues as the next two days were all drunken plastered days and texting me to come cuddle her. She misses work and sleeps all day because she is sooo hung over and is doing self pitty parties. I can see why now the last couple guys she dated got upset at her. While she is playing you she is also lining up the next better thing because she knows you won’t stick around once a guy figures out all the drama. She begged me not to share what she is doing although, apparently she needs a public notice and maybe that will make her realize she needs to change her life and get help. This is not an I hate you post this is a beware post for all men in PG and wife’s of men that know her. She claims the married men she is sleeping with give her benefits like cash, dental, fix things for her and so on. In the mean time she truly is just acting like a floozy. Really sad to watch someone destroy themself. So here is too hoping she stops drinking and gets her shit together, though only oneself can fix oneself !! Though no one should fuk with people, play games and not expect the same in return. Karma !
— One hell of a way to expedite Karma