A True Narcissist
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, the following message has been sent as a cautionary message to those involved with Chris Ekstrom. It is not intended to be discriminatory but to inform and ensure the safety of other women potentiality at risk. Please use your own discretion. Are you seeing Chris Ekstrom too? Perhaps you met on POF or maybe he just randomly added you to FB. I wouldn’t be surprised. I met Chris as a random fb add, as things turned out he was also dating my bff and 6 other women. Please take a minute and hear my experience. I share it in hopes it may spare another an experience better done without. So many have been hurt by this guy. If you know him please trust your intuition!!
Things were nothing short of perfect between Chris and I. He was kind, generous, always offering a helping hand and all around awesome guy. He often talked about marriage and wanting children. He told me of his life; being from New Brunswick and moving between Alberta throughout his life. Finally returning to Red Deer in spring 2015. He spoke of one daughter he missed and he was working hard to build a business contracting so he could give her a good life. He often complained that he had to support his ex and her new boyfriend, who didn’t work and used social services to support themselves. Chris worked hard, all the time even taking late night calls if a customer needed him He appeared to be a decent guy and treated me good.He would bring flowers when he came to visit and complimented me whenever there was an opportunity.
After a few weeks things began to change. I noticed odd moods with Chris. He would appear bothered and claim nothing was wrong. At times he would say his ex was bothering him for money and he was tired of supporting her and her boyfriend. Often he would say the weather can affects his moods and was always sorry. And things would return to normal for a bit. This cycle was ongoing for 2 months. Finally near the end of Sept things began to go missing around my place, including my savings I had stashed away. I asked Chris and he didn’t respond to my message and I have not heard from him since.
Heartbroken, I went to talk to my bff and told her everything I had experienced. She asked me who he was and our jaws dropped to learn we had been seeing the same guy at the same time. Her relationship with him was different and Chris strung her along using her for sex and money. He had been by a few weeks earlier to borrow $40 and she hasn’t from him since. Since then (Aug 2015- Sept 2016) myself and many other women have found more than 40 women Chris has had either a relationship with intent of marriage, open relationships, booty calls, and unofficial relationships lasting less than 3 months. We have also found several fb accounts Chris uses under different aliases.
Most of these women admit they were aware Chris was cheating on them and witnesses aggressive, possessive, jealous, controlling behaviours and ending the relationship within 2 weeks-2 months. Other women alleged and provided photos of physically injuries allegedly from Chris, sexual misconduct/assault, DRD’s, and verbal abuse. There was reports of theft, as well as damage to property. These messages are available upon request.
Many women have claimed to have assisted Chris with money, in an amount totalling over $5000 over the last year, none of which he has made an effort to pay back. Most women claimed he disappeared and they dont hear from him again. Several women reported Chris disappearing and contacting them several months later from a different cell # and/or Facebook account. Often stating he cared deeply for them and should have realized it.
Over the last year Chris has relocated from New Brunswick after a woman become pregnant by him, than off to Alberta. He burned so many women there he headed to Saskatchewan. Within months had he was back in Alberta, until finding out yet another girl was pregnant. Sources say he than headed back to New Brunswick for a few weeks before settling in Ontario. Currently 3 women report having relationships with Chris from ottawa, Montreal and Toronto. He is currently residing in Stevensville Ontario working as a framer. It is noted that he prefers single moms with children whom have full time employment. These women report the most concerning experiences, so special caution if these circumstances apply. Women who did not have children reported Chris being far more sincere/genuine with the image he seeks to present, knowing little about him and only hear from him when he had a sexual/emotional/financial need, even after months of no contact.
If you have experienced these things or just recently met Chris, be careful! Hes charming and presents himself well. He looks out for himself so use your discretion and look out for yourself. Look up Christopher Ekstrom on fb many post from his victims available. BE CAREFUL, BE SAFE AND BE aware.