A True Narcissist

A True Narcissist

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, the following message has been sent as a cautionary message to those involved with Chris Ekstrom. It is not intended to be discriminatory but to inform and ensure the safety of other women potentiality at risk. Please use your own discretion. Are you seeing Chris Ekstrom too? Perhaps you met on POF or maybe he just randomly added you to FB. I wouldn’t be surprised. I met Chris as a random fb add, as things turned out he was also dating my bff and 6 other women. Please take a minute and hear my experience. I share it in hopes it may spare another an experience better done without. So many have been hurt by this guy. If you know him please trust your intuition!!

Things were nothing short of perfect between Chris and I. He was kind, generous, always offering a helping hand and all around awesome guy. He often talked about marriage and wanting children. He told me of his life; being from New Brunswick and moving between Alberta throughout his life. Finally returning to Red Deer in spring 2015. He spoke of one daughter he missed and he was working hard to build a business contracting so he could give her a good life. He often complained that he had to support his ex and her new boyfriend, who didn’t work and used social services to support themselves. Chris worked hard, all the time even taking late night calls if a customer needed him He appeared to be a decent guy and treated me good.He would bring flowers when he came to visit and complimented me whenever there was an opportunity.

After a few weeks things began to change. I noticed odd moods with Chris. He would appear bothered and claim nothing was wrong. At times he would say his ex was bothering him for money and he was tired of supporting her and her boyfriend. Often he would say the weather can affects his moods and was always sorry. And things would return to normal for a bit. This cycle was ongoing for 2 months. Finally near the end of Sept things began to go missing around my place, including my savings I had stashed away. I asked Chris and he didn’t respond to my message and I have not heard from him since.

Heartbroken, I went to talk to my bff and told her everything I had experienced. She asked me who he was and our jaws dropped to learn we had been seeing the same guy at the same time. Her relationship with him was different and Chris strung her along using her for sex and money. He had been by a few weeks earlier to borrow $40 and she hasn’t from him since. Since then (Aug 2015- Sept 2016) myself and many other women have found more than 40 women Chris has had either a relationship with intent of marriage, open relationships, booty calls, and unofficial relationships lasting less than 3 months. We have also found several fb accounts Chris uses under different aliases.

Most of these women admit they were aware Chris was cheating on them and witnesses aggressive, possessive, jealous, controlling behaviours and ending the relationship within 2 weeks-2 months. Other women alleged and provided photos of physically injuries allegedly from Chris, sexual misconduct/assault, DRD’s, and verbal abuse. There was reports of theft, as well as damage to property. These messages are available upon request.

Many women have claimed to have assisted Chris with money, in an amount totalling over $5000 over the last year, none of which he has made an effort to pay back. Most women claimed he disappeared and they dont hear from him again. Several women reported Chris disappearing and contacting them several months later from a different cell # and/or Facebook account. Often stating he cared deeply for them and should have realized it.

Over the last year Chris has relocated from New Brunswick after a woman become pregnant by him, than off to Alberta. He burned so many women there he headed to Saskatchewan. Within months had he was back in Alberta, until finding out yet another girl was pregnant. Sources say he than headed back to New Brunswick for a few weeks before settling in Ontario. Currently 3 women report having relationships with Chris from ottawa, Montreal and Toronto. He is currently residing in Stevensville Ontario working as a framer. It is noted that he prefers single moms with children whom have full time employment. These women report the most concerning experiences, so special caution if these circumstances apply. Women who did not have children reported Chris being far more sincere/genuine with the image he seeks to present, knowing little about him and only hear from him when he had a sexual/emotional/financial need, even after months of no contact.

If you have experienced these things or just recently met Chris, be careful! Hes charming and presents himself well. He looks out for himself so use your discretion and look out for yourself. Look up Christopher Ekstrom on fb many post from his victims available. BE CAREFUL, BE SAFE AND BE aware.

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  1. ExligfApril 11, 2018 at 6:10 AM

    Well he managed to get his video removed from creep catchers. So he will be back at it again.

    • JusticeSeptember 2, 2018 at 9:02 AM

      Rest easy the video has been reposted to YouTube. His lies will catch up to him.

  2. BadbitchMarch 29, 2018 at 6:53 PM

    Just an update. Chris has been caught by Creepcatchers trying to meet up with an under age girl in Sussex NB.
    His reign of terror is coming to an end ladies !!

    • BigMommaApril 1, 2018 at 1:00 PM

      I saw him yesterday? He was smiling and laughing? If he was arrested why is he out shopping? I need the truth. I called the police and they couldn’t provide me any information. When did this happen. I have a young daughter involved I need to know she is safe. Thanks

    • Creep Catchers CanadaMarch 31, 2018 at 6:51 AM

      Yes it is coming to a end and thank you for your support

      • Blazing RainApril 18, 2018 at 6:08 PM

        Why was the video removed? What happened Creep Catchers? :( It is a sicken thought knowing he may still be out there. No doubt lying to which every girls he finds online. Please someone catch this jerk.

  3. It'll be doneMarch 28, 2018 at 7:04 AM

    His lies and stories are falling apart. He’s got himself in a predicament he won’t get away with. He will be dealt with. No ways out of this situation ! Thought this may put you all at ease :). Have a great day!

  4. JollyRancherMarch 26, 2018 at 6:58 PM

    I know this guy. I dated him in December and it was the most confusing relationship I’ve ever had. He would tell me one thing and the next day the story changed. I started getting harassing messages on Facebook saying all these bad things about Chris. In January our relationship just ended. His phone was out of service and Facebook deleted and i hadn’t heard from him. I went to his work only to discover they had never heard of him? We were so happy or I thought. Reading the comments I know now he was living with another women. Now I know the harsh truth :'(

  5. MommybearMarch 12, 2018 at 9:45 AM

    I just ended things with this guy couple weeks ago. I always knew something was up about him. Told me to many stories that never added up and now he lives next door to me. Creps me out abit but glad to know i made the right call on ending things.

  6. DodgeabulletJanuary 13, 2018 at 2:11 PM

    This guy randomly added me on Facebook last week. He said we had met but I couldn’t remember him. He said we went to high school together. He said he was in Hampton Nb and wanted to hang out. I almost did. Thank God someone contacted me warning me about this guy. To everyone out there careful who you add on Facebook they could be a creeper.

  7. TheArchitecDecember 31, 2017 at 11:30 AM

    I am the one whom created this post and I am not surprised to read what I have. Some of you I can tell I have spoken with in the past and I thank you for sharing your experience. Some comments are from those I have not spoken with(I have now contacted you on fb) and some I have attempted to speak to. I want those involved with Christopher know you are not alone in your plight and perhaps support can be found within each other. It’s best to accept that Christopher considers ppl to be disposable \exchangeable. Each person in his life serves a purpose. To the bosses sister whom he is involved with I am sorry but you must see how dating you is advantageous to him. As for kittykat I am sorry it’s best to accept your role in his life. Some men put their wants above the needs and feelings of others. I have been on the receiving end, in your spot which has its blessings. Cut ties with him and if you are lucky like me he won’t remember who you are. It has made vindication peaceful but to those he has accused and hurt because of me I am sorry.
    I hope you all find peace and happiness in life, some of you I know have. To those still caught in the Strom stay strong, stay wise and do what’s best for you.

  8. KittyKatDecember 27, 2017 at 7:08 PM

    I recently ended things with Chris after finding out his roommate was actually his girlfriend! I have been searching for the truth since. A few women’s names have come up and I am hoping someone out there reading this can help me find them. Their names are Morgan and Tracie. If you know anything reply to my post please! I helped him alot, loved him. I’d just like some closure at this point.
    Thanks

    • BadbitchDecember 31, 2017 at 2:47 PM

      Hey this is Tracie and I’m not sure what I can do to help you ??

      • KittyKatJanuary 5, 2018 at 5:38 PM

        Thank you Tracie. No point now I have talked to his LIGF and Chris is nothing but a liar. He denied he even knew me. Not to mention everything he told me about his past and exs was also a lie. Christina can have him I want a Man not a child chasing meaningless sex and lying about how he feels. Chris loves any girl that will bat an eye and sucks the life out them when they aren’t looking. He is an awful human being! I pray he never calls or messages me again but I worry. I am told he contacts all his exs because he loves them too. I never want to see or hear from him again.

  9. Once a FriendDecember 10, 2017 at 11:19 AM

    He was my neighbor, who grew into a friend. I fell in love with him then but never told my secret. I moved away, never said good bye. Years would pass before the universe would have our crosses pass again. A blind date would change everything. We rekindled our friendship and I took the lunge into a relationship, after all he was the love of my life I’d be crazy to pass this up again!
    I learned quickly Chris was hurt and not well. Time had done some damage. He was angry, violent, hurt me, brokey my things and stole fromy family. I tried to understand and have patients. Until one night I will never forget when I learned he had also been seeing and talking to 2 other girls with the second hopes and ambitions we shared for our relationship. The words All American Rage come to mind and I kicked him out of my home.

    Sadly I am one of the girls spoken of in this post. Since our separation he has contacted me multiple times wanting to get back together asking I moved my daughter and I to New Burnsville, Saskatchewan, Edmonton, and finally Toronto. Each time I was willing if things progressed, each time Chris just stopped contacting me, blocked me or changed his number without reason. Months later I would hear from him again and repeat the cycle.

    I don’t agree with the nature of this post however I empathize with the girls he has also hurt and keep them in my prayers time will heal them. I do not believe Chris is the terrible person he is being made out to be he is lost but will find his way. My heart will always be with him regardless of the past or circumstances, love is unconditional, believes all things and never fails. Time can heal, I hope the same for him and wish him the best.

  10. Kronic420December 10, 2017 at 11:09 AM

    I have had my encounters with Chris but I kept him at bay. My body my rules !!
    That didn’t stop him from trying to weasel money out of me , which he didn’t because I’m alot smarter than he is.
    I actually used him for sex and then tossed him to the curb when I was done.
    He still continues to try and get me to come and visit him in Ontario even with a live in gf ( which is his bosses sister btw ). I informed him that wouldn’t be in his best interest to have me around. I’m too real and I would show her all the msgs and pleas from him for me to visit.
    His problem is he didn’t win. I did.

    • KittyKatDecember 27, 2017 at 7:09 PM

      Is this Morgan or Tracie? Please contact me if it is. Kathryn Trask on Facebook. Sorry I have no profile picture just opened the account to get answers.
      Thank you

    • LIGFDecember 19, 2017 at 3:38 PM

      Hi I would like you to send me those messages from him. I really need to know the truth of all of this. So please if you have them please send them to me. Thank you

    • KittyKatDecember 11, 2017 at 8:50 AM

      I was stunned to read this. I don’t know what to think after reading Kronic420 comment. I need to know when this was. Chris and I have been seeing each other since June. I found it odd he didn’t add me to Facebook, he told me he doesn’t use it because of rumors. I knew he worked with his best friend and lived with his sister but had no idea he was dating her?! He told me they were roommates and they live together because of all the rumors and bs from his ex’s. Explains why he never took me to his home. I thought his behaviors were odd but made sense with all the drama.I trusted him and like an idiot lent him money. Money I thought was going to a place for us in the new year. I don’t know what to think now

      • ligfDecember 30, 2017 at 8:07 PM

        why cant i find you on facebook i like to see all the info. this is Christina(LIGF) all 4 Kathryn Trask that come up are all blocked I can not see a thing so if this is all real then please add me to your facebook so i can see it aswell considering Ive gone from being a roomate to being his girlfriend in a open relationship. All of this affects me alott and my 2 children it has to stop my 15 year old gets a variety of messages about chris and it has become overwhelming. So please Kathryn add me to your account.

  11. RandusDecember 6, 2017 at 6:17 PM

    I happen to be the one referred to. “He often complained that he had to support his ex and her new boyfriend, who didn’t work and used social services to support themselves.”

    I am a nuclear power plant operator. My fiance works for another NB Crown Corporation. We had a good chuckle at this article. It’s all about my daughter’s sperm donor. I hope you all move on and never have to deal with this again.

    • KittyKatDecember 27, 2017 at 7:12 PM

      Do you know how to find Morgan and Tracie? There names keep coming up and I need the truth.
      Thank you

      • RandusMarch 26, 2018 at 7:50 PM

        I don’t sorry