Alex Charmchi UBC’s very own criminal

Alex Charmchi UBC’s very own criminal

THE DIRTY ARMY: Hey Nik and dirty community! Alex Charmchi is no new news around here on the dirty community. He’s been accused of rape and continues to get away w. it bc Canada fails its victims. I gave Alex a benefit of a doubt and said yes to hang out after chatting on Tinder. He comes off a nice guy and put together but after hanging out with him countless times you can’t help but take note of how insecure he really is. He has a raging temper , crazy expectations and for sure is battling a lot of diff mental illness! His moods are unpredictable , even though he tries really hard to come off like he has his life together. But he’s 30 and is still on his 3rd year of uni. He talks like he’s going be someone big one day, but he does so much drugs that for sure it’s all talk he’s for real not gonna get anywhere. He was so encouraging at first but he only built me up so he could tear me down to nothing. He called me up one night begging to see me bc he said he was having a breakdown. I agreed to meet up with him and we walked around Stanley. He was complaining about his fam and how they don’t understand him. He begged me to kiss him bc he said he needed to get his mind off of all the stress. We made out a bit and that’s when he started to get pushy with his sexual advances. I’m 5’0” 95lbs and he’s 5’10” 170lbs as much as I fought him off I couldn’t win. He’s much bigger than me. He got fed up with me fighting him and punched me in the stomach. I was in so much pain and couldn’t move and that’s when he took my pants off and shoved himself inside of me. The next day he called me saying that if I’m pregnant he’ll be there for me for the abortion bc he would never want me to go through that alone! Alex Charmchi is a mental case! He’s so good at mentally abusing you that you always end up taking his abuse! He’s a sick person who takes advantage of anyone who’s kind! Went to the police but the injuries that provide “proof” of force aren’t necessarily easy to distinguish from those that result from rough , but consensual , sex. Getting a rape kit done is traumatizing and to be told in the end that my case was hopeless , I gave up and came here instead to warn everyone just as the other women Alex Charmchi assaulted did. Our justice system is discouraging. Even though I saw all those warning signs with Alex in the beginning I made the mistake of wanting to help him. Ladies if you’re a fixer like me , it’s time to stop giving people a benefit of a doubt bc you end up destroyed in the end! Love yourself first

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  1. This is disgustingDecember 7, 2018 at 7:38 PM

    Alex ur a waste of a life

  2. Steve was hereDecember 7, 2018 at 12:03 AM

    Always such a shame to read experiences like this. The system isn’t refined enough yet for women like this to be heard correctly. Alex Charmchi probably doesn’t have any priors n let’s get real, authorities probably have done the same thing n are also trying to cover their own a55. My cousin got raped n her rapist got away with it because she was drinking n her rapist was someone she was seeing. So they wrote it off as “regret” and ignored all physical evidence. I feel for you op. Take some self defence classes maybe

  3. Super BrianDecember 6, 2018 at 5:04 PM

    Quite a few of my female friends have gone out with this guy and they’ve said similar things about him. Aggressive, pushy, really pressures women to have sex just a bad guy overall. Now there’s like 5 plus assault reports about him online. Ladies keep an eye out for this loser!

  4. Which one does he actually resemble most?December 6, 2018 at 12:26 AM

    There’s 5+ posts on this dude all over the internet. He looks diff in all of them. I guess he heavily edits his photos. Which one does he look like the most accurate? Anyone know?

    • This photoDecember 10, 2018 at 9:23 PM

      This photo resembles him best. Other photos he heavily edits his face. Especially around the eyes and his nose! Alex’s nose is so big he might as well be a MARIO Brother haha :P

  5. JasperDecember 5, 2018 at 12:43 PM

    Alex dude you need to stop playing video games and start getting serious mental help. Females are not targets

  6. GigiDecember 5, 2018 at 10:41 AM

    V true. My bff went through the same thing b4. So many things can make the rape kit null. Such as the way the evidence is gathered, if you’re a virgin (the line between “normal” first-time bleeding and “abnormal” injury from a rough assault is blurry and unclear), if you showered after the incident (which is what most victims do right after since the assault makes everyone feel dirty), as the op said rough consensual sex vs assault injuries is also hard to distinguish. Rape kits are portrayed as “fool-proof” but they’re not. Just as polygraph tests, sobriety tests, genetics test etc aren’t fool proof. Especially with rape kits bc with rape the whole issue is consent. There’s no kit that’s fool-proof that someone gave consent.

    But OP know that I believe you. I’m sorry our system has failed another victim once again. I pray that god will heal you and protect you. You are beautiful. Reach out to rape relief centres, they are helpful in ways you wouldn’t dream possible. Remember this wasn’t your fault! May god bring you peace!

    • ZachDecember 6, 2018 at 12:27 AM

      Most factual comment out there!