Kyle Biz — Wants To Be Famous Without The Work
THE DIRTY ARMY: I kind of thought he was an OK DJ, my friends thought it was cause I had always been to busy to have heard much else. I met him and just jumped into what I thought would be a casual relationship. He at first seemed really caring, asked about my friendships, my past relationships and my job but then it started to turn into him demanding to know my personal information like my whereabouts. I ignored these signs because it initially just seemed like he was really committed but when I went back to work full-time it got a lot worse. I didn’t have as much time for both my friends and him but he told me that I needed to make more time for him so I did. It got to the point that I no longer saw my friends anymore and he started borrowing money from me every week. He started calculating my hours and insisting that if I didn’t “lend” him money that that meant I was spending it on someone else and cheating on him. He called it a casual friendship when it was convenient for him. When I brought up him paying me back he told me he didn’t owe me anything. He was totally f!!!*!!g with my mind. Ive never met anyone so financially abusive until I met him.
I got so exhausted between work and trying to please him that I stopped noticing how many boundaries he had crossed. The next thing I knew he had my phone password and was messaging my friends and what he saw as “potential partners” to see what kind of relationship I had with them. Overtime when I saw my friends he was there too, I literally could not see my friends without his supervision. Strangely I just about never actually met his friends or anyone he was close to. He pretty much lived off my income. He posted about working and “grinding” online but did not actually go to work. Over time he just convinced me that he didn’t actually owe me anything. I called him out for gas lighting me and he threatened to go after one of my X who was just a friend from high school. I worked full time living in a shared place and literally ended up in debt paying for I do not even know what he spent my $$ on. At the end of it all He stopped contacting me, and stopped harassing me. Obviously it was no surprise to find out he wasn’t contacting me anymore because he had been in a relationship with two other girls. I feel bad for them. This was the most exhausting ”casual” relationship I have ever had. It felt like 5 years but didn’t even make it to one. I can literally only imagine how bad this relationship could have gotten had it gone past a year. I never thought I’d say this but I feel lucky to be cheated on.