THE DIRTY ARMY: Thank you Nik for the Dirty, so I can share tragedy happen to me: 2 years ago my first year of uni at Langara and there this guy in one of my class. I was new to Canada, I’m International Student from China. He talk to me after class and follow me to help me with my English and to understand Canadian culture. He show to me libraries that open late, like at UBC and we go together study there. One day he say to me he tired of study in libraries and want new scenery. Since we friends I say yes when he ask to come over to my place.
After couple hours of study, he say we need study break to watch BoJack Horseman. I say to him I don’t like cartoons, next thing he start kiss me. I say to him to stop and to leave but he not listen. I say no and I say no again but he slap me and say if I keep my screaming he beat me up and make it hurt more. I frozen. I lay there not move or speak, I was shake from being scared and he hold me by wrap his hand around my neck. It hurt so bad and I try not to cry but I cry and he hit me and told me to shut up because he not able concentrate. Finally he finish and he leave.
I bruises all over myself for weeks. I no strength to tell someone. 1 week before I go in living room because what he did. 3 months for me to sit on couch because I could feel and replay what he did to me on couch. It’s been years and I still feel not safe around any man who look like him. Man with earrings, gold necklace, deep voice, same cologne, silver Volkswagen, pot, he smokes lots of pot. This man name Alex Charmchi. Thank you girls before me who post about Alex. Give me courage to share what Alex did to me. Alex ruined my life. Alex give me panic attacks. We must share to warn each other so Alex Charmchi cannot hurt more