Womanizer of the Year — Jeff Zylstra

Womanizer of the Year — Jeff Zylstra

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, Jeff Zylstra uses women for sex and is the biggest womanizer you will ever meet. I speak from personal experience and a broken heart. He completely ghosted me when I was 2 months pregnant and suddenly said the baby wasn’t his. One moment we were playing house, I was going to meet his parents and they were going to meet the mother of their grandchild and we were going to spend Christmas together, and the next moment hes dumping me in a facebook message!!! Who treats someone like that? Are we in junior high?! Then he deleted me off facebook and blocked me in messenger, because apparently I don’t deserve respect or friendship after abandoning me. I don’t know what’s wrong with his parents that they don’t tell him to deal with things in life. Apparently it’s ok to impregnate women and then run for the hills. He will probably have 5 different baby mommas at his womanizing rate. It’s sick that you couldn’t come up with any excuse to leave me. You need to make me look bad in the eyes of your friends, so that you can rationalize and justify your abusive abandoning behavior towards your pregnant girlfriend. I never did anything to you to deserve being treated like this. He wanted me to hurt and be stressed out and know that I am all on my own with this baby in hopes that I would crack under pressure cuz he wanted me to get an abortion. He sent me texts that were abusive put downs and calling me a whore and then blocked me on every portal even though we only live 3 blocks from each other.

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It’s pretty hard to get over someone when you’re still pregnant with their baby and have all these things in life to think about all on your own. I didnt have the luxury of having someone else to replace you with, so you didnt have to have to think or feel all the negative emotions that you have inflicted upon me. I want to hurt you as much as you hurt me, you womanizing piece of sh*t!!! You look like a coward with your tail between your legs, hiding out, escaping reality. Even if you didn’t want the same things, you didn’t have to ghost me, you are a child!

I’m glad I found out soon enough what a shi**y boyfriend and father that you would make. The games he played with me like posting his relationship with the home wrecker and taking pics with her were all burns at me because I wanted pics with him. But might as well add insult to injury, you already hurt me but might as well throw some more salt in my face! I messaged the home wrecker Mira about our baby and she didnt care, cuz shes a piece of sh*t too. Jeff is the dirty type of person that gives you DRD cuz he picks up girls at the bars and sleeps with them, and then blames it on you when he gives it to you. He used to be obese but now he thinks hes all hot sh*t cuz he found himself a gym pass, a government job, and a rusty lil boat lol.

He has a breathalyzer in his car cuz him and his friends are raging alcoholics and he lives pay check to pay check cuz hes a f**k up. He doesnt say much or have a personality cuz hes not very bright. His favorite hobbies include ejaculating all over the place, on the couch, in the kitchen, and in front of the neighbors, cuz hes a pig!!! He will also give you DRD, that’s about all hes got to offer a woman. He has a narcissistic personality disorder- that’s right, you have a personality disorder, google it, theres something wrong with you! Women of the world should be warned about how abusive he is and how quickly he will turn on you when hes done using you. There’s nothing more traumatic than being ghosted by a man you loved, especially when you’re pregnant with his baby. This is hands down the longest and most traumatic breakup that I’ve ever had to endure. What a devastating blow to my self esteem and mental health. I have been grieving with no closure from you for a long time.

Thank you for being there for me and our baby during this difficult time. Except that you werent there for us, we have to deal with the situation you left us in all our own. You are not a man. Men like you are whats wrong with society, you make me sick.

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  1. WTFMay 23, 2018 at 11:55 PM

    WTFMay 6, 2018 at 1:16 AM
    Dear Imavictim
    Have you taken the time to read your rambling statement?
    You sound PATHETIC!
    Errrr feel sorry for me, he treated me so bad. Wake up! You let him treat you poorly. Honestly I don’t blame him for doing a runner. You sound so annoying.
    And going ahead and having that kid, SELFISH! I’d be willing to bet the farm you were playing that age old game that desperate women have been playing forever, the old baby trap.
    Poor kid.
    Dig deep girl and find yourself some self respect.
    You will be a doormat all your life.
    Anyone who could write that and not understand how pathetic it sounds doesn’t have much of a chance.
    I know it’s harsh but truth hurts.

  2. VeritasApril 3, 2018 at 8:30 PM

    You should feel ashamed for using insults about things you yourself struggle with, Shannon; poverty, mental illness, disability, substance abuse, sexual promiscuity, sexually transmitted infections, addiction, adultery, etc.

  3. IHaveSeenHimMarch 16, 2018 at 11:17 AM

    He works out at the YMCA he’s pretty creepy looking and uptight if anyone looks his way. Now it makes a lot of sense!

  4. AlphaFebruary 8, 2018 at 12:16 PM

    When i see pics of you on your exs fb it literally makes me cringe! Its a good thing she took pity on you or was desperate for a man cuz i certainly wudnt have touched you with a 20 foot pole. With all those triple chins you wud have never been able to get a girl like me Lol. I realize you have a huge ego that leaks due to your inferiority complex. But youll always be obese inside, you cant hide your flaws.

  5. MatouFebruary 5, 2018 at 4:55 AM

    Ummm..Nobody ever made you keep the bastard child in yur stomach..Quit your whining and crying.

    • AlphaFebruary 8, 2018 at 11:38 AM

      Im sick of all the harrassment from you dysfunctional people. If i see as much as one more reference to my child, being told i shud have an abortion or give it up for adoption or that i am “whatever” i will be showing up at jeffs work or at the cop shop to stop all this abuse! Put a muzzel on her jeff or this will go on forever!!!!!! You decide.

    • ProdigyFebruary 6, 2018 at 10:11 AM

      If the government job part is true, wage garnishment is straight forward. The child will be financially supported. Unless the father quits and goes underground…

  6. IntegralGalJanuary 31, 2018 at 2:26 PM

    I am a personal friend of the girl who posted the original story. It saddens me to read of the abuse and trauma that she has, and still is, enduring from these two pathetic creatures. How they are treating her is atrocious and is a reflection of what they think about themselves. She is one of life’s beautiful people, inside and out, and is a gentle soul! Her and her child are better off without the “father” (sperm donor is more like it). It is unfortunate the the child carries some of his genes, but I know she will care for and support her child with love and respect, and the child will grow up to be an amazing person, because the mother is an absolutely genuine, kind and integral person!

    You watch, as soon as this replacement girlfriend gets pregnant, she will endure the same existence and abuse as my friend. What goes around, comes around ten fold.

  7. ABCJanuary 23, 2018 at 7:15 AM

    If you were actually an anonymous gay person and not mira culen then why wud a stranger want to call me a hooker? they wudnt want to but you wud youre so basic and stupid. Enjoy trolling the internet get a new hobbie homewrecker. Oh btw How are your karma sores?

  8. Ann F*cken FrankDecember 31, 2017 at 2:25 AM

    Give your kid up for adoption.

    • LaylaJanuary 4, 2018 at 10:28 AM

      Yeah go read some Ann Frank. Why dont you go educate yourself instead of lowering yourself to jeffs d*ck and his drama.

      • AJanuary 17, 2018 at 5:24 AM

        Why would you tell a gay man about Jeff? He isnt my type.

        To the hooker who posted this, give the kid up for adoption and forget this idiot.

  9. HiDecember 24, 2017 at 1:10 AM

    You seem to need to move on. Also please use paragraphs. Wall of text is too much.

  10. JustmeDecember 24, 2017 at 1:09 AM

    Ok Shannon. Your terrible at trying to be anonymous. Lol. Your a joke.

    • Just2losersDecember 24, 2017 at 1:27 PM

      Oh im sorry was i supposed to be anonymous cuz i dont care lol.
      Jeff G C Zylstra is cute but replace that with “Greasy” Zylstra its better

  11. JustmeDecember 18, 2017 at 1:22 PM

    But your the known escort who only dated him for like a month. Grow up

    • Just2losersDecember 22, 2017 at 10:47 PM

      It doesnt matter how long you date they still deserve basic respect. Lack of empathy is what a psychotic person embodies. Ill grow up when you learn what being a somewhat decent human being looks like. Your outdated and irrelevant insinuation is just any excuse you can find to not look like the deadbeat that you are.

  12. Creepy sociopathsDecember 17, 2017 at 3:39 AM

    You sound pretty intelligent , mature and like a nice person. I’m sorry you have to go through this. It’s really sad to see that simply as a woman. How a man can be so abusive and mistreat a woman esp one he was in a relationship with.

    Apparently ghosting and gas lighting are common narcisstic sociopathic traits. Don’t be alarmed. It’s common. You’re surely not the only one whose dealt with guys like this. They are not men. Shows how immature he is by blocking you off social media networks and couldn’t handle his issues like a man.

    He wanted to make a fool of you and make you look desperate. I wouldn’t fall for that type of abuse or ever welcome it in my life. A persons true colors show in their actions. He would make a poor dad and you don’t need trash like that in your life.

    It’s good you did blast him because losers like this deserve to be put on blast. I don’t know how one can say to not blast him. Abuse should be a crime. Guys like this should be put behind bars. Emotional abuse isn’t easy to forget.

  13. AnonymousDecember 16, 2017 at 6:45 AM

    Now, this girl that posted this sounds like she’s not stable and still loves/obsessed with him. Jealousy and being hurt doesn’t rectify your immature actions in posting this out of revenge, karma is a bitch!

    • Just2losersDecember 25, 2017 at 6:48 AM

      Im not jealous of you “Anonymous” Lol Youre a low life!

  14. NobodyDecember 15, 2017 at 6:33 PM

    The harsh truth — better to find out now he’s a real p-o-s…than later. He’ll still be on the hook for child support.

  15. LaylaDecember 15, 2017 at 6:00 PM

    It might not have been a great idea to do this to the father of your baby! Hormones or not. Isnt the kid going to have his last name? Do you want everyone in the world to know what a disgrace his genes are? Maybe you should abort the thing – neither of you are making good choices for this kid.

  16. Georgia97December 15, 2017 at 1:51 PM

    Well, I mean he looks like a douche so……

  17. LotusXTCDecember 15, 2017 at 12:59 PM

    If I were you.. I wouldnt make this about you and him. Id make it about the baby. Go find out how and when you can get child support. How and when to get a DNA test. You are right he shouldnt get away with it. but dont be vindictive. This is about your child.. his child.. And these moves for child support are for his child. Jeff Zylstra is a worthless human being for saying what he said. But count yourself lucky he left and proved what type of man he is. Which is not a man. peace

  18. The REAL SpursfanDecember 15, 2017 at 12:38 PM

    Nik you posted that douche’s phone number. That’s hard core.

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