Advice plz! Give up?? Move on? Or continue to chase the dream

Advice plz! Give up?? Move on? Or continue to chase the dream

THE DIRTY ARMY: Hey Nik! Been loving your site since I’ve moved to L.A from a little town in the middle of no fkn where 2 years ago.. any way my main question for you is, ever since all these crazy Hollywood sex scandals have been brought to light I’ve been getting more and more discouraged as to why I even moved here in the first place.. here’s the thing, I am a hot, young (under 23) aspiring actress.. currently I’m in all the best classes & training for it but I also don’t have many connections and I’m fine with patiently waiting for my “big break” or when ever a real and reputable manager/ agent wants to sign me or book a commerical or something.. but now this is where I’m getting discouraged at.. should I continue to work hard, wait tables, chase my goals and try make my own connections to open up the pearly gates of hell or at this point should I just say f**k it and start using my beauty and sex to get what I want?

My logic to that is I’m not getting any younger or hotter and right now for at least a few years I am in my prime.. I mean this seems to be the case nowadays and no I’m not saying that I agree with girls getting sexually harassed, exploited & raped but at the same time who the f**k in their right mind would actually believe and go to a “audition or casting call” in somebody’s hotel room? Yes, I know this is Hollywood and it’s very common to have meetings in some un-common places like downstairs at a bar, but come on, you mean to tell me that girls really didn’t know what time it was when Harvey Weinstein would invite them up to his room for a “movie role discussion”?! And shame on all the female assistants who actually let this type of behavior go on so forth but even knowing myself if any director/producer on any level approached me that way I wouldn’t go, wouldn’t even put my self in that position in the first place for what?! Unless someone can break it down for me and tell me how Hollywood really works idk I’m just a bit confused at this point and nope I’ve never had a SD before, never been on any websites now I’m starting to re think it and don’t know if it’s a good or bad thing? Please help!!

Don’t move on- Hollywood is built on dark secrets. Meaning you need to throw your morals out the door to make it. My advice is to sleep with the highest level and compartmentalize it as a one time sexual experience. This way you won’t feel as bad when you cash the check to stardom.- nik

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  1. JsmoovesBoyfriendDecember 2, 2017 at 5:26 AM

    Did you really expect great answers here?. Move out of Hollywood. Go home. Go to college. Start a career. Build a life with meaning. Have some kids and spend time filling your life with things that mean something.

  2. LolDecember 2, 2017 at 12:23 AM

    Nik’s right. You’ll never make it in the film industry if you’re hot. They don’t cast hot girls in major roles.
    Either tone your looks down and let them see your talent or sleep with the top tier a la Jessica Alba and enjoy a few glory years.

  3. buckwheat cherryDecember 1, 2017 at 10:08 PM

    you know nothing about hollywood. real, regular people who must move here NEVER make it. sure, they might be in some unknown movies and small reels here and there, but they will NEVER get to the top. they are all transgendered, mind controlled beta sex kitten slaves!! silly fool!

  4. ByDecember 1, 2017 at 6:05 PM

    Also get a seeking arrangement account. Post classy photo shoot shots on Ig and slide into blockbuster movie directors DMs. keep condoms in your purse.

  5. NobodyDecember 1, 2017 at 6:03 PM

    I’m glad she brought up Harvey’s “Honeypots.” It’s amazing what some people are willing to do
    for a well paying job.

  6. Bitch PleaseDecember 1, 2017 at 4:37 PM

    Why no pic?
    If you start being like 90% of Hollywood wannabees by partying a having sex then you will pay for it because no one will take you seriously.
    Everyone will know, because what goes on the internet stays on the internet, forever.
    Just think that your daughter will one day find out. What do you want her to find out about you?
    Take the high road, your doing good so far.
    There is NOTHING in Hollywood that is glamorous or fun, it’s all make believe.

  7. McDoucheDecember 1, 2017 at 12:42 PM

    Just shut up and blow the next director who asks.

  8. RitaDecember 1, 2017 at 12:12 PM

    OP work hard and don’t be a lazy sloozy like Chewy sucking Greg for cash. Every woman who moves to LA becomes a whore. Be a unicorn in a land of donkeys and work your ass off.