Need Advice Please

Need Advice Please

SUBMITTED: Nik, I would like some advice from you and the Dirty Army. From the age of 14-18 I was being aggressively statutorily raped by someone who was over 10 years older then me. I obviously had the mentality of a child when I was 14 and thought that the man was my bf and he loved me. I knew what was going on was very abusive and longed to get help…but didn’t. When I was 18 I had a complete breakdown realizing I had been used and abused by a crazy psycho, who had told me what clothes to wear, who I could talk to, and literally controlled the thoughts in my head… Once I stopped talking to him he decided to find a new gf who looks like she could be my twin! (Creepy AF)… I have PTSD from what he did to me and horrible anxiety and have had to spend YEARS IN THERAPY to heal. The problem is that the statute of limitation is coming to an end and he got away with what he did. I have no proof because he made me erase every phone call / conversation/ no pictures nothing. I want to move on with my life but I can’t handle the fact that he got away with what he did to me … He found out I moved home for a job and sent me a message saying how I grew up into the women he raised me to be, and how now we can be together! So what should I do? Blast him on the dirty army? Go to the police? Leave it alone? I am scared that if I post him on the dirty I will somehow get in legal trouble? This man is a danger to women …

He needs to be exposed, not for your closure but to WAKE UP his current/next victims. Please share him with us… I need to see his face and please type out his full legal name… Let Google and I save the others.- nik

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  1. Vaffan CuloDecember 18, 2017 at 9:01 AM

    Seriously, OP? You are an f-ng idiot to even post this here. What is it about “reporting this to authorities” that your miniscule brain can’t even understand?

  2. TheRainMakerDecember 18, 2017 at 8:33 AM

    Tell me how you could be “aggressively statutorily raped“?

    Anyway, now you realize why that law is in place. Male or female, minors having sex with adults messes them up later in life. Sorry you have to go through this.

  3. UgggghhhDecember 18, 2017 at 6:45 AM

    These things happen when you don’t parent your children

  4. Those shoes thoDecember 18, 2017 at 5:50 AM

    When did Nik become a certified therapist ??

  5. The MailmanDecember 18, 2017 at 12:36 AM

    How about you just accept you willingly went along with it. Your time to speak out has come and gone. Take accountability for your actions, admit you were a willing participant, and move on with life. If you focus on the mistakes you made in your past you’ll never grow into a better person.

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