Be careful with Em, she wants your money!
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, so I went on this date with “Em” from Tinder. Her profile said she was 26. We planned to meet up for drinks near Soma by my work, ended up at a place called Press Club. After talking a bit, she told me she is actually 30 years old. She is from the Philippines and has moved to America a couple times, but she’s only been in SF for two months. She also told me her past few guys she’s met from Tinder have been older and for some reason they cut her off eventually after hanging out a couple times. She kept telling me she wanted me to let her now what was wrong with her, if I could figure it out. She also told me her real name starts with a M and that’s why she goes by the nickname “Em.” Interesting, huh?
She had a glass of wine already when I got there and we ordered about three more rounds. I asked for the check and paid for all of it ($84). After we left, she pulled out a wax pen and we started hitting that. We were making out as we went to a bar at the top of a hotel, “The View.” We got up there checked out the view, she didn’t act like she was going to buy anything at the bar, and I wasn’t really feeling the place, so we left. Went to Lush Lounge on Polk for a round ($18), and then McTeague’s ($14). So I had already spent over $100 including the Uber.
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At the last bar after she order a round, I asked if she wanted to get that one. She did pay. She got pretty drunk and as we were leaving to eventually go our separate ways, she orders two hot dogs from a street vendor outside. When it comes time to pay she looks at me to pay. I didn’t have any cash, nor did I want to pay for something I didn’t even want in the first place, and didn’t ask for. So I tell her she can get cash from the ATM inside of the bar.
She takes about 15 minutes and eventually I see her waiting on the street for an Uber. When I go ask her what she’s doing. She shows me her phone and that she can’t get the Uber request to work. She was drunk and not requesting it the right way. I help her out, and we go our separate ways, but felt like we’d do it again sometime.
A week passes, she’s followed me on IG, and I see how she’s doing and if she wants to do it again. She hits me with this text that says she shouldn’t have had to pay for that one round, and that it’s not in her values and standards to do that. WTF. The convo went on for a few back and forths and basically she is delusional. Wish I could post the whole thing. Literally just happened an hour ago and she’s blocked me on IG and unmatched me on Tinder so I tried to gather up all I could find that I had screen shotted. She’s out to get paid for and that’s about it. I mean, usually girls will at least offer or pay for a round, is that so much to ask if I’m paying for like $150 worth? And it was the first time meeting! “Em”, I think I’ve figured out what’s wrong with you.