Why do straight girls go to gay bars?

Why do straight girls go to gay bars?

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, these two girls I work with Cherry and Danielle are best friends, but they aren’t lesbian. They love gay men and are always going out to gay bars. I don’t try and mess with coworkers even if I was single but I have several male coworkers who are masculine guys who make a lot of money. They are masculine dudes who love NFL, boxing, ufc and WWE. They are in shape. They go out and do stuff like off road riding, fishing and shoot there guns in the desert. Yet every time these guys ask out Cherry and Danielle, they get rejected. What is going on, Nik?

Is this a new trend where girls only want gay men? I thought that was a myth and that girls want the alpha male. Why are straight women wasting their time with guys who never want them? I’ll never understand why straight girls want to go to gay bars and hang out with gay men instead of hanging out with straight men.

It’s no different then guys liking to watch lesbians make love. Girls are the same. They love watching guys giving each other blow jobs.- nik


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  1. Electric BoogalooDecember 29, 2017 at 11:00 AM

    As a regular customer at a Manhattan piano bar, I’ve seen a downswing (fortunately) on the groups of straight hags coming in and trying to take over. They come in, see how they are basically ignored, have one round and leave. It isn’t that people are going out of their way to not make them welcome. It’s just that the regular customers are tired of the “woo girls” coming in, literally screaming in people’s ears, already wasted when they get there, and getting furious when somebody doesn’t want to be their latest accessory. It’s a form of misogyny and gay men of a certain age do not like to be viewed as you would a zoo animal. We have our lady friends who come in on occasion, know how to behave, and they leave at “dick time” (by 10) when the boys want to find their own way for the remainder of the night. But with women believing they have a right to go anywhere and act any way they want, without regards to the rest of the population (including other women who don’t act the way they do), they need to be put in their place just as a gay man or straight man would be if they were to act out of line. Respect works both way, and it is commanded, not demanded.

  2. REALIST ONEDecember 8, 2017 at 8:41 AM


  3. FuzzyDecember 7, 2017 at 7:25 PM

    Those chicks ain’t getting asked out by straights.

    • TigreDecember 8, 2017 at 1:11 PM

      I’m a straight guy who would suck off that guy if the cute redhead would let me be with her.

  4. Becka143December 7, 2017 at 6:08 PM

    I actually just saw a guy get blown on vid by another guy the other day for the first time. They suck, woman are so much better in my opinion. Atleast visually.

  5. MehDecember 7, 2017 at 3:40 PM

    No. I liked going to gay bars in my 20’s for several reasons, none involving watching blow jobs. 1) Gay men are hotter than straight men. 2) Gay men don’t hit on you, are respectful, and compliment beautiful women a lot. 3) The gay bars (in some cities) are open way later than the normal clubs, so they were a great place to hang out after 1-2am.

    • Gays are safeDecember 30, 2017 at 3:35 PM


  6. GeebusDecember 7, 2017 at 2:53 PM

    Lol women hang out in gay bars because they don’t have to worry about getting molested or hit on by schlubs. As to not being into your co workers – who wants to sh*t where you eat? You still have to work there when your relationship sours. Sidenote – what you feel are selling points for your co workers are probably not on the radar for these women. All the cash in the world or model looks or whatever bloody sports they may be into won’t mean anything if they have a crap personality.

    • cadetDecember 16, 2017 at 11:06 PM

      **”Do “regular” bars or clubs have strict no gay policies?”** -Umm… In half of the states in the U.S., bar owners can LEGALLY refuse entry to gay people. Usually, this doesn’t happen in larger cities but if you are a stereotypical “fem.” gay boy or “butch” girl in a small southern city, you have a very good chance of getting denied entry. Trust me on this – I used to live in Alabama and saw it happen many times.

      Point is, I’m not advocating denying entry to heteros (and no bar/club owner in the US could b/c you cant legally deny entry to someone just cuz they’re straight but you can in 26 states if they are gay.) There is a double standard which is why gay bars need to exist as they are.

    • cadetDecember 7, 2017 at 11:29 PM

      Yes, a lot of hetero women go to gay bars to avoid men accosting them but is a gay bar really supposed to be a safe space for hetero women? Its supposed to be a safe space for gay people – not straight women!! Heteros have thousands of bars to go to -we have just a few.

      • GeebusDecember 8, 2017 at 2:44 PM

        Sorry Cadet but I think anywhere you go should be a safe haven no matter who you are. Saying that hetero women shouldnt be allowed in gay bars is kind of judgemental. Do “regular” bars or clubs have strict no gay policies? Are hetero men also excluded? *** for the record – Im gay and have had plenty of my heterosexual friends accompany me to bars and clubs.

  7. OCSaharDecember 7, 2017 at 2:36 PM

    SO not true. I’m a straight girl and I def DON’T want to see 2 guys blowing each other

  8. The MailmanDecember 7, 2017 at 1:16 PM

    A. I feel bad for any guy who has to resort to asking either of these 2 out.

    B. What makes you think they are not lesbo.

    C. Why are yoiu trying to convince us how manly your friends are?

    • TigreDecember 7, 2017 at 6:43 PM

      On the other hand, if you’re up for swapping blow jobs I’ll let you have the cute one.

  9. TigreDecember 7, 2017 at 12:28 PM

    So blowing another guy is the way to get a girlfriend? Now I know what I’ve been doing wrong.

  10. Georgia97December 7, 2017 at 11:55 AM

    I’d be perfectly fine being rejected by them. Yikes.

  11. APStrongDecember 7, 2017 at 11:43 AM