Roger Spence of Vancouver, Washington

Roger Spence of Vancouver, Washington

THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, ladies stay as far away from the classic narcissist, Roger Spence from Vancouver, Washington. This piece of human garbage has been married 3 times and physically beat each one of them. The last wife left him and within a few days, he was trolling for new snatch on Facebook. Stay away from him, he’s a piece of crap who will only use you. He favorite ways consist of sending songs that he says reminds him of you, using his father’s death for sympathy, and cute little emojis trying to lure you in. Don’t fall for it. Run as fast and as far away as you can!

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  1. such a loser ya are sirOctober 26, 2018 at 10:04 AM

    Roger – How does it feel to know that everyone knows you did this out here. You now have been exposed for the lying, nasty low-life you always have been. The only fake a55 turns out to be you. hahaha!!

    Roger’s new supply – I’ll bet guys are just begging to get together with you, sweetheart! Lmao! – NOT!

    gimmee some of that popcorn! – let’s share! this is great! where is the blast on facebook! send me a link so I can check it out!

    Skank girl – haha, yeah, you got a real winner there lady

    Relationship quotes – someone send me the ex’s facebook page so I can copy and paste this all over it! And I wasn’t married to the guy, but I’m sure as hell laughing at him! “I’m pretty sure you were never really happy, and we’re just living a lie.” Little Freudian slip there Roger and new girl?

    Rainer – The rain in Spain falls mainly on your weed addled brain.

    Jack – If some Roger could look at his personality through a mirror, he would see someone really ugly. a reflection of himself.

    Georgio – Hahahaha! This whole thing is such a pile of somebody’s wishful thinking! Heck yeah, the new girlfriends! Upset that everyone found out what you did Roger. Desperately trying to turn it around?

    Sad – I’m sure Roger’s new girl is quite lovely, as were all the ex wives. But seriously, give me the link to the ex’s facebook, I’m sure she might love this debate, or be mortified that her ex-husband and his new girlfriend are so desperate to clear his “good” name, that’s rich. key phrase here: We just assumed the divorce was peacefully and amicably settled based on their behavior. I haven’t seen a thing from the new wife, or the old wife, or any of the other easily discarded wives. Seems like he’s not missed. So sad and disgraceful for the family that he turned out to be a wife beater.

    WTH? – Alabama? WTH? I thought she was in Oregon? And the guy moved on at the speed of light. As he will with the next one, and the next one, and the next one, and the next one. So you go right ahead and try to lie your way out of WHY she left. “He moved on and won a prize of a beauty and doesn’t want nothing to do with his ex-wife ever again.” I’m pretty certain the ex wants nothing to do with Roger and the prize he won at the carnival. May they live long and prosper!

    We Love You But…. You can say whatever you like, but you’re barking up the wrong tree. Search a whole lot closer to home! The guys seems awfully defensive for someone whose been wronged.

    Interesting……. “I think Roger made a smart move dumping you and finding himself a sweet, decent woman that knows how to treat a good guy. Good for you Roger! You dodged a bullet, buddy!” I was under the impression SHE left HIM? Doesn’t sound like SHE got dumped. But spin, spin, spin away girlfriend.

    Concerned……seriously girlfriend, 24 posts? Seems like the truth hurts doesn’t it Roger? Now give up that facebook post girlfriend, inquiring minds want to know. Does anyone know Pamela’s facebook page??????? I really have to see how you BLASTED her all over! And hurry, my popcorn’s almost all gone!

  2. JamieOctober 25, 2018 at 8:23 AM

    How does it feel to know that everyone knows you did this out here. You now have been exposed for the lying, nasty low-life you always have been. The only fake ass turns out to be you. hahaha!!

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:48 PM

      the only person “exposed” is the lying, abusive stoner. Gina, you should just stop while you have him. Listen to the lies, let him suck you in, and they YOU get to be his slave.

  3. That’s A Wrap, Folks!October 24, 2018 at 5:08 PM

    It’s been fun, but we all have came out and seen and know what to expect from her. This is getting stupid and boring.

    • ginaOctober 26, 2018 at 8:27 PM

      Just in time for poker! Thanks guys! You were awesome! Now I gotta post some flower pics to make the ex-wife jealous!!

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:55 PM

      Boring, really, yet here you are.

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:50 PM

      I don’t know HER, but I sure know HIM! Loser. Stuck in high school.

  4. You Seem Like A Nice LadyOctober 24, 2018 at 5:04 PM

    I’ll bet guys are just begging to get together with you, sweetheart! Lmao!

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:46 PM

      The person who leaves and does not hook up with a new partner within weeks, is usually the person who didn’t cheat. Can’t say that can ya? so convenient that Gina lived right down the street while your wife was working and you were sitting on your a55 telling people how to think on facebook.

  5. I Brought the Popcorn!October 24, 2018 at 5:00 PM

    Lol! Looks like somebody isn’t too popular with her fake posts out here. Serves her right.

  6. This is Skank MaterialOctober 24, 2018 at 4:56 PM

    Who does stuff like this? A skank. That’s who.

    • rogers girlOctober 28, 2018 at 8:32 AM

      You do realize that posting over 20 times CERTAINLY says more about the skank YOU are, rather than who you are attempting to trash? Great strategy of repairing his reputation. You obviously were made for each other. Skank, trash, sloot, thot, wifebeater, thief, liar.

    • ginaOctober 27, 2018 at 6:57 PM

      Gina, you would certainly know what a skank is, all you have to do is look in the mirror

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:49 PM

      and that would be who? YOU! that’s who!!

  7. Relationship QuotesOctober 24, 2018 at 4:48 PM

    If you feel the need to trash on someone you supposedly were happily married to for as long as you claim, I’m pretty sure you were never really happy, and we’re just living a lie. Nobody with any self-respect would do this just because their marriage came to it’s end. Just my humble opinion.

  8. RainerOctober 24, 2018 at 4:44 PM

    The rain in Spain falls mainly on the plains….

  9. JackOctober 24, 2018 at 4:43 PM

    If some people could look at their personality through a mirror, they would see someone really ugly. It starts here. This website and it’s users are ugly.

    • rogers girlNovember 6, 2018 at 6:39 PM

      Hey Jack,

      I really don’t see what the guy has that women might want? He looks like an unkempt grease-ball. He’s probably lucky to get anyone to pay attention to him.

  10. TrudyOctober 24, 2018 at 4:40 PM

    If you say the word “gullible” really fast, it sounds like lemons.

  11. GeorgioOctober 24, 2018 at 2:34 PM

    Hahahaha! This whole thing is such a pile of somebody’s wishful thinking!

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 6:05 PM

      Yeah, Roger is wishfully thinking his slore believes him.

  12. SadOctober 24, 2018 at 11:23 AM

    This was heartbreaking to read. My husband and I have spent several evenings together with Roger and his girlfriend. She is a very lovely woman, and I have never heard her or Roger ever speak an ill word about Roger’s ex-wife. We just assumed the divorce was peacefully and amicably settled based on their behavior. It is sad to come out here and see the ex-wife is doesn’t have the decency to behave during a difficult time and is instead displaying horrible behavior for a woman who should be concerned about the role model responsibilities she has with having a daughter and granddaughter. So sad and disgraceful for the family. Shame on you, Pamela. You are almost 60 years old!

  13. SadOctober 24, 2018 at 11:12 AM

    This was heartbreaking to read. My husband and I have spent several evenings together with Roger and his girlfriend. She is a very lovely woman, and I have never heard her or Roger ever speak an ill word about Roger’s ex-wife. We just assumed the divorce was peacefully and amicably settled based on their behavior. It is sad to come out here and see the ex-wife is struggling with having the decency to behave during a difficult time and is instead displaying horrible behavior for a woman who should be concerned about the role model responsibilities she has with having a daughter and granddaughter. So sad and disgraceful for the family. Shame on you, Pamela. You are almost 60 years old!

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:53 PM

      Oh Gina, it looks like you’re getting your mommy involved now! Take him, he’s all yours, cause no one else wants him.

  14. WTH??October 24, 2018 at 10:22 AM

    I heard she was having an affair with some guy in Alabama and so she moved there to be with the guy she was messing around with. Then she got ghosted by the dude she was messing around with and now wants her ex-husband back but it’s too late for that. He moved on and won a prize of a beauty and doesn’t want nothing to do with his ex-wife ever again.

  15. Interesting Analogy But It Doesn't Work. Here's Why.October 24, 2018 at 10:12 AM

    Anyone that is a survivor of abuse certainly would not spend a year and a half bullying her supposed abuser and his girlfriend online. It doesn’t work like that. An abused person tries their hardest to stay away from the abuser, and would NEVER taunt their abuser for fear of retaliation. You appear to be everything you have accused your ex of being. Coming out here and doing this means YOU are the abuser, and the narcissist. Anyone that spends all their time bragging about what a sweetheart they were/are, isn’t the sweetheart. You would never need to boast if you were. Everyone would already know. Obviously, you know you aren’t a sweetheart, and this is your lame way to try and convince others. But, again, it doesn’t work. You see….nice people don’t make posts about their ex-husband and his girlfriend and spend over a year obsessing about them and bashing on them on social networks. Nice people would refrain from engaging in such nasty behavior as this. I think Roger made a smart move dumping you and finding himself a sweet, decent woman that knows how to treat a good guy. Good for you Roger! You dodged a bullet, buddy!

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:54 PM

      So odd, I haven’t heard a word about her saying anything. But boy you sure are trying hard!! hahahahahahaha

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:36 PM

      I’m pretty sure Gina has been sweet to LOTS of guys. Can you say Dolphin software and the suit she filed after the guy she had an affair with fired her? Hope she got bucks for it!

  16. Oh Dear....October 24, 2018 at 8:56 AM

    The ex-wife needs to find another outlet for working through her issues. This is highly inappropriate and speaks volumes about her lack of character. Obviously, her moral compass is shattered. I’m cringing in embarrassment for her. I wonder if she understands how pathetic this makes her look? it’s sad really. :(

    • gina/rogerOctober 31, 2018 at 6:43 PM

      Interesting Analogy But It Doesn’t Work. Here’s Why.

      Even more interesting is that most abusers are incredibly charming to 90% of the people around them. They are abusers because they have that one person they can call names, have unreasonable expectations for and generally terrorize. As long as they can do the abuse – love bomb cycle they feel in control. Once they aren’t in control they look for the next person they can use and love bomb and the cycle begins all over again. And they move so very quickly, and convince their next partner that the discarded ex husband/wife is crazy, And of course, all the ex-wives/partners were crazy, They fail to realize the only common denominator is themselves. So be kind to this Gina person, she is going to need all the support and kindness of her friends when he finally shows his true self.

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 6:01 PM

      Roger, you look sooo pathetic trying to hide your actions and letting your latest “soul mate” fight your battles for you. I’m too busy getting ready to party at the crystal ballroom to play any more. Maybe tomorrow?

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:56 PM

      rich, the husband has no compass that someone isn’t holding up for him. Good luck with that.

  17. SOSOctober 23, 2018 at 7:59 PM

    Earth to Pamela earth to Pamela lick your wounds and slither away

    • KellyOctober 29, 2018 at 10:29 AM

      Roger and Gina,

      Not only does your pathetic display just show what trash you are, the fact that you spent over 3 days making up things to post is quite almost amusing. Gina, you knew he was married, why are you surprised people are shocked you were hooking up with him 3 weeks after his wife dumped him? Roger, you are a pathetic child who cannot possibly alone, you feel women are made to be your personal servant. You two are made for each other.

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 6:04 PM

      Earth to Roger, Earth to Gina! Spin, spin, spin, spin away. No-one believes your pathetic lies. I’ve only heard at least 6 different stories about why he got dumped. He should really pick one and stick with it.

  18. ConcernedOctober 23, 2018 at 7:51 PM

    I don’t normally pay attention to gossip and such, but when I read the Facebook post to come out here and read what Roger’s ex-wife has been doing to him, I felt the need to look.
    I have been following Roger and his beautiful life partner since they got together and couldn’t believe there was a side story. After reading through all of this, I know this is all lies. I have known Roger his entire life, and I know for a fact he is not capable of what his ex-wife has said on here. I am copying what I am sending here because I have also heard his ex wife is not allowing anyone (she blocks the post) to post the truth here.

    • ginaOctober 26, 2018 at 6:07 PM

      you don’t listen to gossip? yet here you are dear! Good try Gina.

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:23 PM

      Gina, Gina, Gina, you are such a nice, deluded, love bombed little dummy. Good luck sweetheart! And you outed yourself mightily. You should be mortified at this lame attempt.

  19. So....October 23, 2018 at 7:35 PM

    Keep blocking the comments Pam. They have all been made aware you would do that. It just confirms everything about you; you are a lying, manipulative, narcissistic, jealous woman. Every comment you block, they are asked to go out and confirm on a social network post that everyone is watching.

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 6:04 PM

      where, where, where? I have fresh popcorn.

  20. JuJuOctober 23, 2018 at 7:25 PM

    One comment got out publically on here, before you got the chance to interfere in it not being posted. Pam, you should go out and remove it too, like you have all the others. Truth hurts, don’t it bitch.

    • ginaOctober 26, 2018 at 6:11 PM

      The only bitch is you Roger. Cause you have to depend on a bitch to fight your battles for you.

  21. KellyOctober 23, 2018 at 7:22 PM

    I heard about this site tonight. I don’t agree with bullying Pam. She obviously is having trouble moving on. However, Pam, that doesn’t absolve your actions out here at all. I know for a fact, everything you have said out here is a lie. I know the whole story. You need to puck up the pieces and move on. This is not the answer young lady. You need to do better than this. Rise above.

  22. JeffOctober 23, 2018 at 7:13 PM

    I absolutely did not say that comment you posted, Pam! Wtf is wrong with you? Grrr! I always knew you were crazy. I tried to warn Roger!!!!!!!!

  23. PaulaOctober 23, 2018 at 7:12 PM

    I absolutely did not say that comment you posted, Pam! Wtf is wrong with you? Grrr! I always knew you were crazy. I tried to warn Roger!!!!!!!!

  24. Your Friend at One TimeOctober 23, 2018 at 7:03 PM

    Pamela,
    We weren’t close friends, but I have done enough with you and your ex-husband to know everything you are saying out here is a lie. I have lost all respect for you. Good riddance.

    • Hi Gina!October 26, 2018 at 5:32 PM

      To Roger and his latest soul mate: LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE!

    • She’s Blocking All New SubmissionsOctober 24, 2018 at 5:11 PM

      It’s all fun and games till you get treated the same way you treat others. You can’t block the truth just because you block submissions out here. It’s common knowledge.

      • such a loser ya are sirOctober 27, 2018 at 5:58 AM

        HI Roger and Gina,

        Sex dry up already? You both seem to have lots of time on your hands.

      • ginaOctober 26, 2018 at 6:14 PM

        Where is her site! I want to see if she will block mine!

    • JenOctober 24, 2018 at 2:28 PM

      I know, right!? This is repulsive to see how she REALLY is, and not the fake-Ass sweetheart she pretends to be!

    • I'm Doing The SameOctober 24, 2018 at 10:35 AM

      I’m doing the same. I have just removed myself out of her life. She is a liar and is destructive, lacking in integrity and good morals. Sad way to find out someone I thought I knew is capable of coming out here and being so awful. Ugh…

      • ginaOctober 26, 2018 at 6:15 PM

        I’m not sure who you are, but I’m pretty sure it’s not a loss if you are sticking up for a wife beater.

    • JeffOctober 23, 2018 at 7:17 PM

      Exactly!

      • ginaOctober 26, 2018 at 6:17 PM

        Bye Felicia.

  25. We Love You But....October 23, 2018 at 6:32 PM

    You just got blasted all over FaceBook! Pam….stop. You are embarrassing yourself. You look so sad and desperate. I’m begging you, for the sake of our family, stop! Just stop! It’s so embarrassing! You look so pathetic. Everyone is laughing at you! You can do better than stooping this low. Please get some self-respect!

  26. The WorldOctober 23, 2018 at 6:32 PM

    You just got blasted all over FaceBook! Pam….stop. You are embarrassing yourself. You look so sad and desperate. I’m begging you, for the sake of our family, stop! Just stop! It’s so embarrassing! You look so pathetic. Everyone is laughing at you! You can do better than stooping this low. Please get some self-respect!

  27. The WorldOctober 23, 2018 at 6:31 PM

    You just got blasted all over FaceBook! Pam….stop. You are embarrassing yourself. You look so sad and desperate. I’m begging you, for the sake of our family, stop! Just stop! It’s so embarrassing! You look so pathetic. Everyone is laughing at you!

  28. KristinaOctober 23, 2018 at 8:48 AM

    Seriously? He and his wife split? That sucks! She was so nice! And she worked her butt off for him and his family. I actually DO believe he’s a wife beater, he’s always been a damn bully. And a know-it-all. He likes to say he “inspires” people, but actually he’s just bossing them around and telling them what to do. He likes to say he’s able to fit in anywhere, but that just means he’s fake as hell. He’s been married three times now. And he’s a cheater, so the wife must have found out, or he thumped her around again. I thought they would last, this just makes me sad. And the new girlfriend? ICK! Does not compare to the sweetheart he was last married to. What a horse face.

    • BrianOctober 24, 2018 at 11:34 AM

      Let me get this straight; you think the new girlfriend doesn’t even compare to you? Lmfao! You are right. She is way out of your league. You are like chopped liver to her Filet Minon!

      • ginaOctober 26, 2018 at 6:22 PM

        Sure Roger/Brian.

    • Horse Face?October 24, 2018 at 10:42 AM

      If that’s a horse face, I wanna get me a horse-faced girlfriend too. She’s hot AF! Way hotter than that fat old wife with the bad teeth he used to have!

      • ginaOctober 26, 2018 at 6:23 PM

        Go right ahead, I hear Gina loves the married men. Are you married, cause you are gold if you are!!

    • Looks Like Somebody Needs Some Mental Health HelpOctober 24, 2018 at 8:29 AM

      Pam, you have stooped to a level that I am not sure goes lower. Surely you must recognize how this looks to others. You look angry, jealous, and spiteful. You guys have been split up for over a year and a half. What are you doing? Move on! They have. You are not even a blip on their radar. You have spent the last year and a half trying to convince everybody what a sweetheart you are and how awful Roger and his new girlfriend are. Yet, here we are a year and a half later and the only person who appears to be awful is you. You have accused innocent people of horrible behavior that I know first hand are lies. Not ONCE….and I mean it….not once have I ever heard Roger or his girlfriend even bring you up or say anything about you. Yet, here you are (The self-described sweetheart) making horrible accusations and nasty remarks about two innocent people. It makes you look incredibly jealous. You are certainly not a nice person at all. Its real easy to see Roger is in a much better place now that you are out of his life.

      • ginaOctober 26, 2018 at 6:27 PM

        I’m not sure if she’s jealous, but I bet you money she’s happy you guys found each other. Keeps the trash out of her house. Or condo, or whatever. Roger and Gina, you deserve each other. And I have to tell you how entertained I was today. Now go relive the rose bowls you never made a play in, the colleges you flunked out of and do the Al Bundy imitation you are famous for! Let’s play again soon.

  29. ChrisSeptember 18, 2018 at 9:08 AM

    hahahaha, this is rich! What a giant fake a55 this guy is. Too bad he’s gotten hooked up with another giant fake a55. She’s using him just as much as he is using her. He just brags and brags about how he uses women and will dump them and move on the to next with lightening speed. I heard the current “love of his life” will drain him dry, as he is going to try to drain her dry. I can’t wait to watch it all unfold. This guy totally deserves to be outed.

  30. JamieSeptember 4, 2018 at 10:31 AM

    They will always feel empty. They will fill that void with alcohol, food, drugs, spending, videogames, tv, sex/porn, work, etc and then one day they will meet you. Eventually you will be drained to fill that empty. You’ll be left a shell of a person, depressed, sick, anxious, crazy. And that’s when they leave you, when your life has been drained, to feed their empty. They are onto the next supply.

    Heal my little ones. You once were filled, now fill once more.

    There is no need for revenge, because the ultimate karma is

    Their empty can never be filled.

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