Ask Nik — Need Advice
THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, welcome back! I would like your advice in dating please. I just started dating. I am in college- young, healthy female. I get contacted off IG to meet guys, but I just feel uncomfortable with meeting a stranger off it. Do only players and guys looking for sex message girls on IG? Or is it normal for guys to message and arrange a date on there? I’ve chatted with some guys on IG and there is some that offer to fly me out to meet them and other way around. (This isn’t normal right ???) What is the cut off time for a date? If someone plans a date after 9:30pm is that way too late? Thank you Nik!
Guys only message randoms girl on IG to break them down to send nudes and get them to FaceTime for stealth screen grab purposes OR to arrange sex for as cheap as possible. Instagram was invented for a 5 minute release and makeup tutorials. So, if you’re banking on social media to find a real relationship- YOU ARE CRAZY!! I’m hoping in my comeback women become a little bit more aggressive in actually approaching men who they feel a connection with. That goes for Gays too… Grindr is not a love connection, it’s a release connection to measure sperm counts. How about everyone go to a local coffee shop and smile at someone and see if they smile back? So, in answer to your question- CUT this dude now, he just wants your warm-hole.- nik