THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, I recently started visiting your website after hearing about it through your show, couple’s therapy. I have to admit that I had never heard of you or your site, but it is now a guilty pleasure of mine because sometimes I find myself so shocked by the content on it. I know, in this day in age of porn and cocaine, it is pretty ridiculous that I am shocked by it, but I am. I think mainly because there are so many shameless people out there, like the guy who submitted the last article about hooking up with an escort in Vegas, while his wife is away. Why be married if you have to get your kicks off of a chick who has the ugliest tattoo I’ve ever witnessed, not to mention a rough face. I mean really, how cliche is a Vegas hooker? I know you might respond with, “Some people want the best of both worlds,” but obviously you are not getting the best of one world if you have to seek another. If you want to live the life of a single man, or woman, then be single, but don’t subject other people to your selfish ways. Cheaters are becoming the standard, rather than the byproduct of an entitled generation. What are your thoughts?

My thoughts are… men get bored and get off by the hunt of indiscretion. I agree with you on the single part, but a man wants to be loved by many not by one.- nik