THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik, wanted to get your opinion about what is going on in my life. Been married to my wife for 16 years and we have 4 beautiful children. To make a long story short, my wife is a CPA at a firm in Newport Beach and has been working there for 7 years now, she has never once let me come to their annual Christmas party until the last one since I made a big deal about it. When I went I met her boss and he is a very handsome man with a very large pocket and I could not help to notice that the two of them were flirting extensively. Didn’t really think much of it. In the past 6 months, we have had sex only 3 times and I don’t understand why. We usually have sex 2 to 3 times a week prior to that. In the past few months, she has been having dreams and she actually talks out loud. It wakes me up because she is so loud. The dreams usually consist of sex because she is moaning, keeps yelling out that she is “coming” and how that was the best orgasm of her life. She always screams out the name Mark and that is actually her boss’ name. I’m getting tired of her waking me up to Mark’s name. I don’t know if she is cheating, but to me its starting to sound like it by the dreams. I don’t know what to do. I ask her about the dreams and she tells me she never has any. I love my wife and don’t want to ruin the marriage by being some insecure husband thinking this because of dreams. What can I do about this Nik?
Dreams don’t count as cheating. Married men file away chicks all the time. You need hard evidence… honestly though if she is dreaming about the sex then she is not really getting taxed. If I were you I would dream back even harder and scream over the top, make sure you yell her age of 22 so your wife wakes up and understands you run show.- nik
**Question for the DIRTY ARMY: If you heard your partner having wet dreams about someone else would you leave them?**