THE DIRTY ARMY: Hi Nik, been DA strong for a few years now! Never submitted anything until my long term relationship ended, now I want some of your blunt advice. I was dating this guy for three years. We had so much fun whether it was out partying or just relaxing at home, his family and friends loved me, mine loved him, etc, etc. Once the one year mark came around though, we broke up because he told me he wasn’t sure whether or not he wanted to be in such a serious relationship. Two months passed, he went out and fooled around, but then came asking to get back together. I took him back. Why? Because I loved him, remember how great it was when we were together, blah, blah, blah. It happened again a year or so later and then yet again just a couple weeks ago. This time he says its over for good because he just lost feelings for me this time… although all of his friends keep telling me he just wants to fool around a bit again and he’ll be coming right back. Until then, he wants to be just friends… Should I stop making stupid decisions and just stop seeing and talking to this guy altogether?
Until you can just be friends you should. He’s using you as an easy piece of meat during his ruts. Just saying.- nik