The Dirty Army: Nik, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 and half years and I’m about to move across the country with him to help him fix some family financial problems. We are not from money but we both work hard and have saved up money to do this journey. I have been very good with the money I have earned plus I have a small inheritance I could lean on if I ever needed too. He knows this. He will be jobless while we are in a new state and I will be the main source of income as I am transferring through my job. I was OK with him doing this because I empathize with the stress he will being going through with his family. The problem I have run into over the years though with this man is that he has bipolar tendencies and pushes me away at critical times. We have broken up before for about 3 months, 2 years ago. We fell apart and went separate ways with different people but long story short, we over came that and realized we wanted each other. We have been through a lot but I just when things are good and perfect basically he flips a switch over something that I would consider meaningless and tries to sabotage our relationship. Turns into a very jealous insecure person. 2 steps toward, 5 steps backwards type of deal. I am a patient and giving person I feel, but I get burnt out on dealing with this type of situation. Am I stupid for dropping every thing I've ever really known to move across the country to be with someone like this? I love him very very much but I don't want to crash and burn and be regretful.
VERY STUPID. Get off this train to hell.- nik