THE DIRTY ARMY: Nik. I need your advice. I feel like I don’t even know who my husband of three years is anymore. He’s a disabled veteran. He got shot and had to have open heart surgery. When I first started dating him he told me he got money from his parents then he told me he was on disability. When I first found out I was pregnant he told me he was taking his dog out to go potty. He was gone for two hours and came in smelling like rank stanky vagina and his pupils were dialated. I flipped. Long story short he convinced me that I had a delusional disorder and that I needed to check myself into the mental hospital. Now I’m on the same medication they put schizophrenics on because I wanted so badly to be with my baby’s father. He also told me he grew up in New York and that he served ten years in the marines. I found two of his online profiles. One is for veterans and said he served four years and the other is for classmates and says he went to school in Maine. I haven’t confronted him about any of this and I know I’m not looking at someone else’s profiles because of the other information and how he spells his name. I just wonder what else he is lying about! What do I do?
Lauren please stop submitting yourself. Focus on the medication.- nik